Sandcastle wrote:
This is a tldr moment.. i just want to rant a little. Don't mind if you dont like these kinds of posts.
So the guy i'm dating is so amazing in so many ways. He's an all around good guy, very gentleman-ish and charming. He's a few years older than me. Also not too bad looking .: )
He's always respectful when around my family. He gets along with everyone. He's a nice person, generally speaking. Always makes the people around him laugh..
I do love him but in some ways we differ too much. I know I'm being so insecure but I often feel that I'm not good enough for him. For example, this is tmi and i'm sorry but i'm not a overly sexual person and I often feel that he only wants sex whenever we hang out. We do normal couple things and hang out but in 9 out of 10 times it will end with sex.. Now i know this doesn't sound like a big deal but we don't get to hang out too often because i have school and he has work so i appreciate doing other things than just that. We ended up getting in a huge argument because i told him my honest feelings and he got angry. The thing that hurt me the most is that he brought up HIS ex and basically compared her to me.. Anways. Like usual, it ended up with him getting whatever he wanted like always.
He's always so sweet and respectful to me otherwise so why does this thing has to ruin it all?
If i'm being honest, this relatipnship feels like I only have to put in effort to make him happy. Obviously he's intentions isn't to hurt me but i can't help feeling sad about it. His good sides definitivly outweights his bad sides but I still just wanted to rant about it because it's honestly getting frustranting not being able to talk about it without being blamed for it. Like dude, if your ex was so much better, why not go back with her? YIKES this is my first relatipnship too so i'm new to this. But even if i had 100 exes, i wouldn't compare any of them to my current. Oh well!
This is a tldr moment.. i just want to rant a little. Don't mind if you dont like these kinds of posts.
So the guy i'm dating is so amazing in so many ways. He's an all around good guy, very gentleman-ish and charming. He's a few years older than me. Also not too bad looking .: )
He's always respectful when around my family. He gets along with everyone. He's a nice person, generally speaking. Always makes the people around him laugh..
I do love him but in some ways we differ too much. I know I'm being so insecure but I often feel that I'm not good enough for him. For example, this is tmi and i'm sorry but i'm not a overly sexual person and I often feel that he only wants sex whenever we hang out. We do normal couple things and hang out but in 9 out of 10 times it will end with sex.. Now i know this doesn't sound like a big deal but we don't get to hang out too often because i have school and he has work so i appreciate doing other things than just that. We ended up getting in a huge argument because i told him my honest feelings and he got angry. The thing that hurt me the most is that he brought up HIS ex and basically compared her to me.. Anways. Like usual, it ended up with him getting whatever he wanted like always.
He's always so sweet and respectful to me otherwise so why does this thing has to ruin it all?
If i'm being honest, this relatipnship feels like I only have to put in effort to make him happy. Obviously he's intentions isn't to hurt me but i can't help feeling sad about it. His good sides definitivly outweights his bad sides but I still just wanted to rant about it because it's honestly getting frustranting not being able to talk about it without being blamed for it. Like dude, if your ex was so much better, why not go back with her? YIKES this is my first relatipnship too so i'm new to this. But even if i had 100 exes, i wouldn't compare any of them to my current. Oh well!