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my mom's driving me insane
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part ?????????? like a million


im going on a date with (my ex aka)my crush this saturday and i told my mom about it and i mentioned that im also going to her place when i have my vacation and
she started making false accusations on my crush 

the thing is that i told her when we broke up, but i never told her why because its none of her business
but apparently she had entirely blamed it on her, which is 0% true
we broke up because i was too mentally ill and had to focus on myself and not others
which i did & i feel so much better now
but no according to my mom my crush had 1. left me, 2. told me she never wants to see me again

it kills me to have her do false accusations on ANYONE
and she accuses EVERYONE of something which isnt true
today she asked me that had i gotten weaker or lazy because i was at the gym for 1h instead of 2h
like,,, woman, i work out 10h+ each week, rarely switching my habits etc do you really think that i had somehow gotten weak or lazy? no, i was there for 1h because i wanted to go home and paint and i honestly didnt feel like being there for 2h?

she had me believe that my sister had an eating disorder when in reality she didnt, when i was a kid she thought my dad, her HUSBAND, was sexually harassing me, she blamed her own suicide attempt on me, shes trying to make me believe that i have an eating disorder
shes always blaming something on someone
and for example when something is missing and i ask her if she has seen it shes always replying with "i didn't take it/i touched nothing"
i didnt even ask that

she forces christianity on me
she forces me to believe that im depressed
that all my friends are better than me
that im stupid
that i dont know how to do things
she literally doesnt let me use the washing machine because apparently id break it
she cant leave somewhere if im 1. taking a shower
2. unless im not informed
shes been stuck at home my entire life and maybe between 5 years shes always been like
"ill look for a job" and she never has and then she takes it out on me for not finding a job for the summer even though she doesnt have a job either
i literally made more money in 2 months than she did in 19 years

im just going insane
my dad's dying, mom's making me want to die
i graduate next summer, i'd better be able to get out after that or honestly ill die before my dad.
im so sick of her treating others like shit and making me feel like shit
but no everytime i tell someone i hate my mom its just me being a teenager
yeah
ive only hater her for 7 years of my life anyway, its just me
being a teenager
its
just a phase
ok
Neurogyn
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ew..
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Neurogyn wrote:
ew..
welcome to my daily life at home
Neurogyn
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mmimousa wrote:
Neurogyn wrote:
ew..
welcome to my daily life at home
your mom is kinda really toxic
TokyoHotel
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hon i know exactly how you feel, ive hated my birther (aint even callin her mum anymore) since i was 8/9... havent seen her since spring cause i left to live with relatives in another country, and i plan to never see her again. you'll b free 1 day 
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Neurogyn wrote:
mmimousa wrote:
Neurogyn wrote:
ew..
welcome to my daily life at home
your mom is kinda really toxic
not even kinda o boi
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TokyoHotel wrote:
hon i know exactly how you feel, ive hated my birther (aint even callin her mum anymore) since i was 8/9... havent seen her since spring cause i left to live with relatives in another country, and i plan to never see her again. you'll b free 1 day 
ily & take care

but yeah goddamn 
ill truly be free once shes dead and buried bc thats just how it is but ive managed 19 years i can do it again
TokyoHotel
Streetmusician



society needs to encourage the awareness of toxic/abusive mothers, theres a lot, and they keep getting away with ruining childrens lives just cuz theyre women
Neurogyn
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mmimousa wrote:
Neurogyn wrote:
mmimousa wrote:
welcome to my daily life at home
your mom is kinda really toxic
not even kinda o boi
i pray for you to get out of that house as quick as possible
TokyoHotel
Streetmusician



mmimousa wrote:
TokyoHotel wrote:
hon i know exactly how you feel, ive hated my birther (aint even callin her mum anymore) since i was 8/9... havent seen her since spring cause i left to live with relatives in another country, and i plan to never see her again. you'll b free 1 day 
ily & take care

but yeah goddamn 
ill truly be free once shes dead and buried bc thats just how it is but ive managed 19 years i can do it again
i feel the same about my, i fantasized for years about killing her myself but now im 20 and much better without her in my life. it never truly ends though, shes not here but i get uncontrollable flashbacks that trigger violent episodes... also recently my brain has been "unlocking" traumatic memories i didnt realise id shut off, they come at random and FUCC me up no matter what im doing in that moment ;/ so be prepared for a possible lengthy aftermath once youve escaped
BooSeungkwan
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Whatever happens, once you graduate, LEAVE. Do not let her have a hold of you once you graduate. You will be an adult, you can make your own decisions. You can and you will get out please do not forget that. Your life is your own, not hers, and once you can go you need to take that opportunity. Stay strong 
SeptemberBlues
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I feel so bad... but also I HAVE NEVER RELATED MORE WITH SOMEONE MY ENTIRE LIFE (IM JUST GONNA RANT ON MY MUM CAUSE IM PISSED NOW)

I hate my mom because
1. She'll say shit to me and whenever I ask her why she says it afterward, she'll completely deny anything happened.
2. Whenever she tells me to do chores with her, she'll pretend she forgets and not do it so I get stuck with all the work.
3. Whenever I talk to her about how my dad has been saying sexual/abusive things she'll make up a dumb excuse about it and doesn't do anything about it.
4. She won't buy me a goddamn phone because she thinks my friends are going to try and make me commit suicide by texting me (honestly Ik she doesn't believe that, she just doesn't want to waste money)
5. All my life she has put money first, then family. My mom left my dad starving in Las Vegas once because she told him he wasn't allowed to use a credit card and he almost died.
6. She gets mad at me when I have anything less than a B in school and tells me that I'm not "putting enough effort in".

I have so much more but I have to get ready for dance soon so bai
Ad0xa
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Damn :c I feel so sorry for you.
I really hope you get out of that toxic environment soon"!! 
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BooSeungkwan wrote:
Whatever happens, once you graduate, LEAVE. Do not let her have a hold of you once you graduate. You will be an adult, you can make your own decisions. You can and you will get out please do not forget that. Your life is your own, not hers, and once you can go you need to take that opportunity. Stay strong 
i will gtfo once im able!!! ily&thanks
Akihiko
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Oh Mimo, I'm so sorry to hear that you have to go through such a hell with someone who should (and has the responsibility) to take care of you and love/accept you. Trust me, I know exactly what it is like to have an abusive mother and it hurts so badly to know that you have to go through all that pain that it is. I'm holding my thumbs (dumb swedish saying for wishing someone luck) that you're able to move out as fast as possible and I'm wishing you all the luck on your date on saturday! . And you know, if I'm still together with Filip in 2 years we'll have a apartment. So if you haven't found anywhere to live in two years, hit me up and I'd gladly let you stay with us for a while.
Private
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I can't tell how much I feel for you.. My heart brakes, and I really wish for you to get out of there as soon as possible, and please try not to get too affected by her toxicity. Ignore her as much as possible, and don't be afraid to put your foot down and defend yourself and those you love in your life.

I know how it is to have a toxic mother, and it is indeed exhasting -especially mentally.. I don't wish that upon anyone :c
I agree, as TokyoHotel said, that there should be raised more awareness around toxic mothers, cause that is a serious problem, and there are a lit of them, and yes they get away easily with it because they are women and "there is a sacred bond between mother and child that should never be broken"

I wish you a lot pf luck, and you are in my heart and thoughts! <3
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