Limbs wrote:
i don't really know the difference between a crush and attraction? or like. i notice straight away if i am attracted to someone and then if i spend more time with them it will probably develop into a crush.
except no, it's not like this with girls for me? cuz my attraction to girls feels different, i usually just feel mysteriously drawn to them and don't understand why until later.
last autumn i spent 5 days on a course with a girl and i was just fascinated by her. i got frisson nearly every time she spoke and i noticed myself thinking about her a lot even after the course. it took me a while to realize i was attracted to her. at the same time i was attracted to a man there (which was obvious from the start) and him and her seemed to connect really well and i got jealous over BOTH of them lol that was wild.