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why are personal threads a thing
Sinister
Streetmusician



sinister wrote:
idgi wouldnt it be more appropriate to have a blog? do u make them with  the expectation that people read and/or reply? explain
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Date: 25-09-2018 03:28
Private
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Claire wrote:
why do we have to have this thread so often we need this in an FAQ somewhere
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Date: 25-09-2018 03:29
Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:
i dont actually mind people making personal threads, we dont get that many active threads at once so its not like it takes up any space
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Date: 25-09-2018 03:32
Sinister
Streetmusician



sinister wrote:
Monarch wrote:
i dont actually mind people making personal threads, we dont get that many active threads at once so its not like it takes up any space
i don’t care that people make them im just curious 
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Date: 25-09-2018 03:32
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nothing will ever compare to the confusion i experienced when i first came here like two years ago and i experienced the concept of personal threads for the first time and all that people posted in them was pictures they got off tumblr and music videos
Date: 25-09-2018 03:33
Cappuccino
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cappuccino wrote:
yeah no idgi
i think writing down your thoughts and feelings can be really helpful but i dont see why you would do it in some random thread on vp for everyone to see 
ofc some people probably want attention but then its better to ask for it yknow, and even better talk to someone professional
and when it comes to things that arent like thoughts and feeling why not have a blog like you said
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Date: 25-09-2018 04:22
Private
Youtube star



Limbs wrote:
Pastiche wrote:
idgi wouldnt it be more appropriate to have a blog? do u make them with  the expectation that people read and/or reply? explain
yes
or a hope more than an expectation, but yes i post here in my personal thread because i want attention/advice/support/etc. if i didn't i would just write in a private diary. pretty much no one replies in personal threads tho but i don't wanna be annoying by making separate threads all the time so personal thread it is.
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Date: 26-09-2018 00:02
Sinister
Streetmusician



sinister wrote:
Andrromeda wrote:
Pastiche wrote:
idgi wouldnt it be more appropriate to have a blog? do u make them with  the expectation that people read and/or reply? explain
yes
or a hope more than an expectation, but yes i post here in my personal thread because i want attention/advice/support/etc. if i didn't i would just write in a private diary. pretty much no one replies in personal threads tho but i don't wanna be annoying by making separate threads all the time so personal thread it is.
ohhh ok ok that kinda makes sense
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Date: 26-09-2018 00:04
Persona
Streetmusician



Persona wrote:
Seigfried wrote:
nothing will ever compare to the confusion i experienced when i first came here like two years ago and i experienced the concept of personal threads for the first time and all that people posted in them was pictures they got off tumblr and music videos
@ me next time 
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Date: 26-09-2018 00:05
Private
Youtube star



Limbs wrote:
cappuccino wrote:
yeah no idgi
i think writing down your thoughts and feelings can be really helpful but i dont see why you would do it in some random thread on vp for everyone to see 
ofc some people probably want attention but then its better to ask for it yknow, and even better talk to someone professional
and when it comes to things that arent like thoughts and feeling why not have a blog like you said
not every problem people have in life is pathological dude

people can't go to a professional with every life issue they have. some things are bothersome but normal and it's good to talk about them but not everyone has people to talk to about those things irl.
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Date: 26-09-2018 00:08
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
I dont see mine only for me its just so i dont make multiple useless threads when i can put it into one sometimes for venting etc and people can respond if they want to
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Date: 26-09-2018 00:09
Private
Popstar



Gunshot wrote:
I was forced by moderators, if I don't do it I'm gonna get timeout and banned
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Date: 26-09-2018 00:12
Private
World famous



Yoko wrote:
i like it,  i like getting to know people

i dont like one on one conversations cause i never know what to reply so i feel like people are talking to me thru their threads ...
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Date: 26-09-2018 00:28
Sinister
Streetmusician



sinister wrote:
Yoko wrote:
i like it,  i like getting to know people

i dont like one on one conversations cause i never know what to reply so i feel like people are talking to me thru their threads ...
i don’t even read them the “personal” word throws me off i feel like im looking at someones diary
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Date: 26-09-2018 00:35
Private
World famous



Claire wrote:
Pastiche wrote:
Yoko wrote:
i like it,  i like getting to know people

i dont like one on one conversations cause i never know what to reply so i feel like people are talking to me thru their threads ...
i don’t even read them the “personal” word throws me off i feel like im looking at someones diary
we should stop calling them "personal thread" as the title and make it like "Claire's Thread" or "Pastiche's Thread" instead so it's more like inviting.
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Date: 26-09-2018 00:36
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
Pastiche wrote:
Yoko wrote:
i like it,  i like getting to know people

i dont like one on one conversations cause i never know what to reply so i feel like people are talking to me thru their threads ...
i don’t even read them the “personal” word throws me off i feel like im looking at someones diary
we should stop calling them "personal thread" as the title and make it like "Claire's Thread" or "Pastiche's Thread" instead so it's more like inviting.
I like this idea

Hmmm I mostly use vp as an escape/personal venting place anyway. I use one because I want someone to read it. I don't care if anyone replies (although I appreciate it) but I like knowing someone can step in and understand how I'm feeling. I also like sharing music to the point of spam so it's nice to compact it all in one thread.

If I didn't want people to read my thoughts I'd get a diary but you know I kinda do. I'm an attention whore but at least I admit it. It's just nice to let my feelings out and know someone else might be reading and can relate or care in some way. It makes me feel less alone, you know? I'm not working through problems in my personal thread. Just looking for self-expression and someone to share those thoughts with to feel connected socially.
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