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I feel pressured
Kitkatpuddel
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kitkatpuddel wrote:
Kinda TW (mental health, ED's, self esteem)
I feel really pressured lately, to like 'fix' my instagram, to facetune, to be 'perfect' in even more unrealistic ways. I've always had an extremely big problem with me trying to be 'perfect' all the time (which kinda also led to ED behavior), and me being so damn stressed about it, to the point where it will keep me awake at night (like rn), even more anxiety (I've got diagnosed anxiety in every single aspect of my life lol), and even panic attacks.
And honestly idk what to do about it anymore, like I feel pressured to do all these things, and its making me hate myself even more, than I thought was possible

idk if I want advice or if I just needed to rant and be sad on the internet but yeah..


edit; I also feel pressured to be a lot of other stuff, but that doesn't really tie into the looks thing
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Date: 19-10-2018 00:59 | Times changed: 3
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i mean u could delete ur insta

or i could tell u to not care about it and that ure perfect just the way u are etc but lbh me telling u that wouldnt affect u
Date: 19-10-2018 01:05
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i thought everybody felt this way

i get alot better when i delete my instagram and all my social media and pretty much don't look at other people at all 
Date: 19-10-2018 01:11
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Claire wrote:
what do you get out of being on instagram? what positive thing does social media do for you in your life?
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Date: 19-10-2018 01:12
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wug wrote:
krocaine wrote:
i thought everybody felt this way

i get alot better when i delete my instagram and all my social media and pretty much don't look at other people at all 
I don't, I've never downloaded instagram because I have no interest in obsessing over my looks and worrying about what other people think about me. Everyone is busy all the time thinking about themselves, people forget that everyone else is thinking about what other people think about them rather than thinking about others, normally. Or that's how I perceive it. 
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Date: 19-10-2018 01:13
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ctrl wrote:
you could just not show your face on it
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Date: 19-10-2018 01:13
Kitkatpuddel
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kitkatpuddel wrote:
the thing is (I think) that I want to seem perfect (idk why), I've always been this way, I think it has something to do with bullying earlier in my life, because (the way my brain sees it) if im perfect, nobody can say anything about me that is negative

i also like social media, but it stresses me the fuuuuuuuk out, so I dont wanna delete it, but it also fucks with me
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Date: 19-10-2018 01:16 | Times changed: 1
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kitkatpuddel wrote:
the thing is (I think) that I want to seem perfect (idk why), I've always been this way, I think it has something to do with bullying earlier in my life, because (the way my brain sees it) if im perfect, nobody can say anything about me that is negative

i also like social media, but it stresses me the fuuuuuuuk out, so I dont wanna delete it, but it also fucks with me
most people want to be perfect. it's not weird. but it is unhealthy, so if you want to feel better about yourself, delete your social media. if you refuse, well then. you choose how you want your life to go
Date: 19-10-2018 01:19
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Tavia wrote:
Okay first of all I give you a hug  
Because that's not nice at all to feel that way sad

second, ofc... I wish I could help you more ! but I do think that getting rid of those social media would be a good idea 
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Date: 19-10-2018 01:25
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