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ok i really have to talk about this
Athena
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the moment i realized i might be dissociating a bit i came to the conclusion i have to get this out of my system

so, a long story short, i was coming from a grocery store, separated from my boyfriend there as he went to gym and i started my journey towards our apartment
and then this man with his dog (whom we have seen about a month ago and he was _drunk_ and the dog was in distress but anyway) ends up walking to the same direction, and it ends up me walking maybe 3 steps ahead on the left side of the sidewalk and he and the dog on the right. and i hear him talking to the dog, and i think that maybe he actually cares about the animal even though it didn't surely seem like it, but then suddenly, he's talking to me??? like "he's not scary, he's just really enthusiastic!" and i look over my shoulder and because i'm an idiot and for some reason i can't act rude at all, smile a bit but keep going.
but he keeps talking and following me and it ends up as a conversation, and he asks where i am going, i tell him i'm off to a school and he knows it's the art school because it's the only school in my direction and he starts to talk about his niece who had been studying there and such, and he's just so fucking nice i can't tell him to fuck off and it's horrible and my anxiety is spiking up

he tells me how i'm really extroverted (which i definitely am not) and how this is the way to get some friends, and i should have some local friends - even though i told him i have been here 3 years so... and i also said i have only a few months left before moving away with my BOYFRIEND, which got him a bit taken aback but didn't stop him at all

and in the end it ends up he having my number and i his, because i couldn't act like i didn't have my phone because he saw me playing pokemon earlier and i couldn't not give him my actual number because he wanted me to call to him immediately and i'm just too damn nice to say no

and now i'm panicking because he knows where i am basicly and he has my number and if i just block him he can come here or if he sees me downtown he can confront me and i'm just really scared?
Noctuan
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he doesnt seem like someone to be scared off. Just maybe a little to forward xP If u meet him again and he starts talking to u, just say how it is. That u are introverted and a little uncomfortable around people. 
Athena
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Noctuan wrote:
he doesnt seem like someone to be scared off. Just maybe a little to forward xP If u meet him again and he starts talking to u, just say how it is. That u are introverted and a little uncomfortable around people.
he's probably not, but it's shady as hell when he keeps following someone that clearly doesn't want to be bothered, especially a woman and when it's dark and slippery and no one else around
and with the creep history that this school has and what i've encountered too, it's not easy to trust when someone approaches you like that

and all the feelings that i have after this are only anxiety and panic and it just keeps getting worse in my head. i actually told him i'm absolutely not extroverted but he just dismissed it, ugh
Gvaudoin
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athena wrote:
Noctuan wrote:
he doesnt seem like someone to be scared off. Just maybe a little to forward xP If u meet him again and he starts talking to u, just say how it is. That u are introverted and a little uncomfortable around people.
he's probably not, but it's shady as hell when he keeps following someone that clearly doesn't want to be bothered, especially a woman and when it's dark and slippery and no one else around
and with the creep history that this school has and what i've encountered too, it's not easy to trust when someone approaches you like that

and all the feelings that i have after this are only anxiety and panic and it just keeps getting worse in my head. i actually told him i'm absolutely not extroverted but he just dismissed it, ugh

I agree/feel you. I get those creeps often after me too and even if they aren't exactly "dangerous", they still make me uncomfortable af.
Athena
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Gvaudoin wrote:
athena wrote:
Noctuan wrote:
he doesnt seem like someone to be scared off. Just maybe a little to forward xP If u meet him again and he starts talking to u, just say how it is. That u are introverted and a little uncomfortable around people.
he's probably not, but it's shady as hell when he keeps following someone that clearly doesn't want to be bothered, especially a woman and when it's dark and slippery and no one else around
and with the creep history that this school has and what i've encountered too, it's not easy to trust when someone approaches you like that

and all the feelings that i have after this are only anxiety and panic and it just keeps getting worse in my head. i actually told him i'm absolutely not extroverted but he just dismissed it, ugh

I agree/feel you. I get those creeps often after me too and even if they aren't exactly "dangerous", they still make me uncomfortable af.
yeah, exactly D:
Gvaudoin
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Just remember if he calls/texts you, you don't have to answer him. And if you see him again and he asks about it, you can always say that your phone is breaking and sometimes deletes numbers -> you never answer unknown numbers. Also if you see him, it sometimes helps to pretend that you're talking on the phone with somebody else -> have no time for him rn
Athena
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Gvaudoin wrote:
Just remember if he calls/texts you, you don't have to answer him. And if you see him again and he asks about it, you can always say that your phone is breaking and sometimes deletes numbers -> you never answer unknown numbers. Also if you see him, it sometimes helps to pretend that you're talking on the phone with somebody else -> have no time for him rn
yeah, you're right
and i have people around me all times when i'm at school, i should be pretty safe, i think
and if he starts to make trouble, i can always call police then? ok, this is starting to get a bit simpler in my head too
Gvaudoin
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And of course, if he starts trying to hit on etc being creepy, you can always say to him that that makes you feel uncomfortable. I gave my number to one creep once and after we met for the second time, I texted him at home that meeting up with him made me feel that way and that I'm going to block him now. I saw him again on my way to the city, but he didn't bother me anymore
Gvaudoin
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athena wrote:
Gvaudoin wrote:
Just remember if he calls/texts you, you don't have to answer him. And if you see him again and he asks about it, you can always say that your phone is breaking and sometimes deletes numbers -> you never answer unknown numbers. Also if you see him, it sometimes helps to pretend that you're talking on the phone with somebody else -> have no time for him rn
yeah, you're right
and i have people around me all times when i'm at school, i should be pretty safe, i think
and if he starts to make trouble, i can always call police then? ok, this is starting to get a bit simpler in my head too

That's very good! Just keep yourself safe. And if things go worse, police/etc will help you. 
Athena
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Gvaudoin wrote:
And of course, if he starts trying to hit on etc being creepy, you can always say to him that that makes you feel uncomfortable. I gave my number to one creep once and after we met for the second time, I texted him at home that meeting up with him made me feel that way and that I'm going to block him now. I saw him again on my way to the city, but he didn't bother me anymore
damn, u strong
Athena
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Gvaudoin wrote:
athena wrote:
Gvaudoin wrote:
Just remember if he calls/texts you, you don't have to answer him. And if you see him again and he asks about it, you can always say that your phone is breaking and sometimes deletes numbers -> you never answer unknown numbers. Also if you see him, it sometimes helps to pretend that you're talking on the phone with somebody else -> have no time for him rn
yeah, you're right
and i have people around me all times when i'm at school, i should be pretty safe, i think
and if he starts to make trouble, i can always call police then? ok, this is starting to get a bit simpler in my head too

That's very good! Just keep yourself safe. And if things go worse, police/etc will help you. 
yes, thank you so much! this really made it easier for me to process and get a bit more rational
Gvaudoin
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athena wrote:
Gvaudoin wrote:

That's very good! Just keep yourself safe. And if things go worse, police/etc will help you. 
yes, thank you so much! this really made it easier for me to process and get a bit more rational

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