Snusmumrikken wrote:Gunshot wrote:I don't know why you are so hard on yourself and think you are so unlikeable because I can't think of.. ok maybe I can think of someone on here that dislike you maybe..
We have a shared love for Moomin which I love and I like ESC too even though you probably more than me because you are gay, but you are the good gay, and you are a man that I truly respect on here and I think you are very much needed on this mess of a website. In the beginning I think I was a bit angry because of one thread you made about your mom but that was in the very beginning and I didn't have a clearer picture like I do now. And if I said anything to upset you at that time I'm truly sorry. Even though sometimes I feel you are punching my brain with linguistics and school things I still love you no matter what and I'm so sorry for everything that you have had to deal with in your life just because of who you are, but I also appreciate and have so much respect for the fact that you don't treat it as your "entire identity" and that your identity revolves around it. And I think a lot of people on here, should learn from you, because you put out a good example and reason and like you've made me a much smarter person, although that's not difficult because I'm dumb as a bread.
Like.. if you were hit by a bus and died and I never heard about it like I would be crying so much. When I've been through a difficult time last year and everything, you were there and listened to me and my annoying rants and didn't judge or try to force me in one direction or the other. You are like a breath of fresh air to this website truly. And I'll fight anyone that says otherwise. Because even though you score some more masculinity on that test we both know that I have a big ballsack.
I love the fact that we are not that similar and yet we get along like peas in a pod. One of my favorite people on this site that is for sure. And Joe Bastianich is the best judge on MASTERCHEF
If you ever need me I'll be here for you even though my advice sucks, I'll be there to support you, if it's about bugs in your closet or no matter what. More people should be like you. You are loyal, and stick with the people who are keeping it real forreal and that is honourable. I truly hope that everything great will come to you and I'm praying that you will have such an amazing life when you are done with UNI and everything else that comes with that.
I feel like you are part of my small little vp family and you're like a big brother that I never had
This got a little deeper than I thought it would
I appreciate it
I think you have an unfortunate tendency of being understood as something you aren't, the way you word yourself might be interpreted in ways which make you seem like a hateful and judgemental person. I don't think you are, and I think you mean well with whatever you do or say, it isn't acts of evil.
Like you say, we aren't very similar at all, I think my opinions are extremely far removed from yours, but life is a matter of perspective and the backgrounds we have shape how we perceive the world. If we encounter new things via people or situations we struggle with understanding or coping, our views on things will be affected by that.
Although I do understand to some extent the problems people have with you, I don't agree with it. As I experience the situation, it appears that crucial opinions and elements are lost in "translation" when you discuss things with others. Both sides "read into" things that may not even be there. You are obviously not the most liberal person here, neither am I, but I don't think you are deliberately hateful or overly critical to the unknown, it's just poor wording (no offence).
I hope you will, either in immediate future or in the future, find people and surround yourself with people who take the time to try to learn to know you, without putting words or opinions in your mouth. And I hope you encounter supportive people who are able to help you through the chaos, because I do not wish any evil upon you.