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my boyfriend is great 9 out of 10 times
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
cappuccino wrote:
nah bro if he manipulates you to do sexual things with him he aint it
PERIODT
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Date: 12-07-2019 15:54
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Gilmore wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
sounds like a manipulative man child 

as we say in sweden KASTA HONOM GOMMAN (dump his ass)

u aggressive & i luv it @GvcciGoddess 
straight to the point eh
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Date: 12-07-2019 15:54
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Gilmore wrote:
GvcciGoddess wrote:
sounds like a manipulative man child 

as we say in sweden KASTA HONOM GOMMAN (dump his ass)

u aggressive & i luv it @GvcciGoddess 
straight to the point eh
my tolerence for mens bullshit is very low
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Date: 12-07-2019 15:55
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I dont blame him, yes its very childish and stupid to bring up his ex but i think he just said it to make you feel bad, because he probably got hurt when you mentioned it and didnt think 

i know how he feels maybe because i would also be hurt if someone said they wouldt have sex with me, because i overthink and start to think about what is wrong with me, dont you love me and blahblah blah.. but maybe give him a little time and if he doesnt understand that he was overreacting MAYBE he is manipulative but idk

sorry my english grammar sucks dont judge im workin on it
Date: 12-07-2019 15:56
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if u cant express ur feelings and emotions to ur partner completely freely without them being understanding and reassuring and patient then sorry bb but the relationship will never be fulfilling or healthy or happy
Date: 12-07-2019 15:58
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GvcciGoddess wrote:
delusion11 wrote:
if u cant express ur feelings and emotions to ur partner completely freely without them being understanding and reassuring and patient then sorry bb but the relationship will never be fulfilling or healthy or happy
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Date: 12-07-2019 16:00
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Hajime wrote:
I feel like he's kinda manipulating you, as you said he ends up getting what he wants which is sex and u also said u are the one putting the most effort into this relationship
He may be nice and charming but a toxic and manipulative person doesn't always seems like it
You should re-think if this relationship is really what you want and if u are happy with how much you give and how he treats you, you know?
I wish you the best x
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Date: 12-07-2019 16:12
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Sandcastle wrote:
Jorun wrote:
I dont blame him, yes its very childish and stupid to bring up his ex but i think he just said it to make you feel bad, because he probably got hurt when you mentioned it and didnt think 

i know how he feels maybe because i would also be hurt if someone said they wouldt have sex with me, because i overthink and start to think about what is wrong with me, dont you love me and blahblah blah.. but maybe give him a little time and if he doesnt understand that he was overreacting MAYBE he is manipulative but idk

sorry my english grammar sucks dont judge im workin on it
It's not that I don't want to, because I do, just not EVERYTIME we see each other. It would be nice to just hang out every once without him expecting anything more. I think I'm being as polite as I can too and I just tell him that I'm not in the mood or suggest that we do something else but he doesn't like that very much.

Your english is good! I understood you perfectly! Thanks for sharing your perspective on the situation
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Date: 12-07-2019 16:17
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ouch wrote:
Damn you sound like me
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Date: 12-07-2019 16:19
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Sandcastle wrote:
Hajime wrote:
I feel like he's kinda manipulating you, as you said he ends up getting what he wants which is sex and u also said u are the one putting the most effort into this relationship
He may be nice and charming but a toxic and manipulative person doesn't always seems like it
You should re-think if this relationship is really what you want and if u are happy with how much you give and how he treats you, you know?
I wish you the best x
I know.. I wish i could stand up for myself and listen to myself and what I want but it's so hard when I think of the consequences. But I feel like I'm in a good place as of now! I might regret everything one day but i feel happy in my relationship right now. Everything's a lesson, you now. Hopefully we can both change and work on our relationship fro the better. ^^

Thanks so much!
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Date: 12-07-2019 18:24
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So he gets upset when you tell him you don't want to have sex?
Date: 12-07-2019 18:42
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ouch wrote:
Ok, so my boyfriend has gotten mad/sad about me telling him I don't like to have sex that much or when I don't want to have sex, but that's because he thinks it's because I don't find him physically attractive anymore.
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Date: 12-07-2019 18:46
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Sandcastle wrote:
SisterMorphine wrote:
So he gets upset when you tell him you don't want to have sex?
Yeah. Pretty much
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Date: 12-07-2019 18:55
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Sandcastle wrote:
Adaarda wrote:
Ok, so my boyfriend has gotten mad/sad about me telling him I don't like to have sex that much or when I don't want to have sex, but that's because he thinks it's because I don't find him physically attractive anymore.
Ohh. Now I get what you mean by "you sound like me" comment.
Being in a situation like that sucks..

Maybe tell him that it has nothing to do with that?
For example, I am really attracted to my boyfriend but still, that doesn't mean that I'm always willing to have sex with him. There is such a thing as not being in the mood. I wish some guys could understand that better.
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Date: 12-07-2019 18:59
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ouch wrote:
Sandcastle wrote:
Adaarda wrote:
Ok, so my boyfriend has gotten mad/sad about me telling him I don't like to have sex that much or when I don't want to have sex, but that's because he thinks it's because I don't find him physically attractive anymore.
Ohh. Now I get what you mean by "you sound like me" comment.
Being in a situation like that sucks..

Maybe tell him that it has nothing to do with that?
For example, I am really attracted to my boyfriend but still, that doesn't mean that I'm always willing to have sex with him. There is such a thing as not being in the mood. I wish some guys could understand that better.
I have a really low sex drive (probably because of mental health) so it's a struggle tbh. I told him that it isn't him being the problem, and that the fact that I didn't want sex that often just is how it is (he also has a very high sex drive, so there's that). He didn't understand it at first but he has worked on it, and he knows that he isn't the peoblem even tho he feels like it sometimes, and I think that really has helped him a lot in understanding and coming to terms with it.
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Date: 12-07-2019 19:03
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