absintjente wrote:
when ur friend gets a bf that u hate. n then u can just see her entire personality n self identity wash away for the benefit of their boyfriend. their entire boyfriend and life revolves around being with him, pleasing him, thinking about him, waiting for him, talking about him.
like she moved to a new city and she has NO friends apart from her boyfriend. after coming home from school n practicing the only thing she does is wait for him to get home.
its so frustrating because i really care for her, but its like shes ended up at this very weird place where theyve totally stagnated since high school, but also developed into a weird husk of herself.
idk what to do