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Samfie wrote:
So I'm moving out from my ex in a few days -finally getting me own apartment! For this occasion, my ex want to do something this weekend, and I think it can be a nice way to end things -on a happy note, so I said yes, but....

He's asking me what I want to do, but I have literally no idea

So far, he has suggested;
- watch a movie
- game (on switch)
- go for a walk
- make a bonfire
- make gingerbread
- order takeaway sushi
- drink hot cocoa
he wants me to decide or come with more/other suggestions

But honestly, no matter how cozy some of these sounds, this makes me a bit uncomfortable, and I don't really know what I want or have any other suggestions. I'm determined to have a positive attitude and hope this can be at least a little fun, but our situation is not the best tbh..

If you were to formally hang out with your ex for one last time, what would you do?

Realistically we would most likely be seeing each other at later occasions, because we have several mutual friends, and will be living like one block from each other. I just think he senses that I want to cut down on the excessive amount of time we spend together, and I think he is majorly stressed out about being "left behind".

But yeah, wtd -what movie could we for example watch, ex-friendly?
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Date: 11-12-2019 13:34
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Pixel wrote:
oh boy that sounds difficult, my past relationships have mostly ended with abruptly ceasing all contact lmao


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Date: 11-12-2019 13:39
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Samfie wrote:
Pixel wrote:
oh boy that sounds difficult, my past relationships have mostly ended with abruptly ceasing all contact lmao


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deep down that's what i want, but i'm trying to be as mature as possible, leaving as few scars as possible -for the both of us .. damn this sh is fn hard
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Date: 11-12-2019 13:41
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leda wrote:
well it greatly depends on why he's your ex now
i'd suggest something that doesn't involve either of you going to the other's place?? or idk what your stance is on this
but like ice skating, cinema, coffee, etc
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Date: 11-12-2019 13:41
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leda wrote:
leda wrote:
well it greatly depends on why he's your ex now
i'd suggest something that doesn't involve either of you going to the other's place?? or idk what your stance is on this
but like ice skating, cinema, coffee, etc
like immediately having this close contact will probably not help establish healthy boundaries later on
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Date: 11-12-2019 13:42
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Samfie wrote:
leda wrote:
leda wrote:
well it greatly depends on why he's your ex now
i'd suggest something that doesn't involve either of you going to the other's place?? or idk what your stance is on this
but like ice skating, cinema, coffee, etc
like immediately having this close contact will probably not help establish healthy boundaries later on
yeah u right! i'd say we should do something "light n easy", so i think activities that acquire preparations and stuff are out of the question. and i'm pretty much stuck here until monday anyways, so trying to be as positive as possible until then. he also suggested maybe have a friend join or smth and I might take him up on that offer actually -making me feel a bit safer ahah
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Date: 11-12-2019 13:48
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leda wrote:
Samfie wrote:
leda wrote:
leda wrote:
well it greatly depends on why he's your ex now
i'd suggest something that doesn't involve either of you going to the other's place?? or idk what your stance is on this
but like ice skating, cinema, coffee, etc
like immediately having this close contact will probably not help establish healthy boundaries later on
yeah u right! i'd say we should do something "light n easy", so i think activities that acquire preparations and stuff are out of the question. and i'm pretty much stuck here until monday anyways, so trying to be as positive as possible until then. he also suggested maybe have a friend join or smth and I might take him up on that offer actually -making me feel a bit safer ahah
oo inviting a friend is a great idea!! just generally try to have the least amount of "intimacy" in the hangout as possible, like for example making gingerbread is a cooperative task, therefore requires some amount of intimacy; something fun and easy is a great way to go ;)
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Date: 11-12-2019 13:54
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