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You are not alone
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People say it like it is a comforting thought, but I dunno i have never found it useful at all. 

I am not alone in this type of experience yet I experience it my unique way?
I am not alone but it doesn't secure that anyone is here or are in the right mindset to deal with what I may want to share? 
I am not alone and yet I am. 
And maybe its not their fault. Maybe the fault is my own, but it doesn't really change it: that we are indeed alone in our own experiences of our lives even when we share them with others. 
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I wish I was alone 
Bones
Living legend



to me it's more like im here for you if you need to talk or need anything but i guess that depends on context
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ouch wrote:
I wish I was alone 
I don't. I am touch-starved. 
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Nesta wrote:
ouch wrote:
I wish I was alone 
I don't. I am touch-starved. 
Touch makes me sick so in that regard I consider myself lucky
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ouch wrote:
Nesta wrote:
ouch wrote:
I wish I was alone 
I don't. I am touch-starved. 
Touch makes me sick so in that regard I consider myself lucky
I mean good for you in that regards. 
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Minister of Pop



I get what u mean hmm
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Waifu wrote:
I get what u mean hmm
Hmm 
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Minister of Pop



Nesta wrote:
Waifu wrote:
I get what u mean hmm
Hmm 
I think a lot of people actually are really alone
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Waifu wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Waifu wrote:
I get what u mean hmm
Hmm 
I think a lot of people actually are really alone
Yes. There are many ways to be alone.
MissLondon
Queen of Queens



Welcome back, nice to have threads that make sense 

I don't think of it as anything more than the person relates. 
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MissLondon wrote:
Welcome back, nice to have threads that make sense 

I don't think of it as anything more than the person relates. 
Thanks. I am here and back on my bullshit.

Hm. I've never really considered as a way to say you relate. I've always seen it more as a) a offer of support or b) a way to try normalise what you're going through by saying there are many people experiencing the same/similar thing. 
Heaven
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depends, ur not alone as in someone is there to support you... but sometimes the person could be implying you're not the only one going through an experience that seemingly only you can understand, or miscommunication happens
MissLondon
Queen of Queens



Nesta wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Welcome back, nice to have threads that make sense 

I don't think of it as anything more than the person relates. 
Thanks. I am here and back on my bullshit.

Hm. I've never really considered as a way to say you relate. I've always seen it more as a) a offer of support or b) a way to try normalise what you're going through by saying there are many people experiencing the same/similar thing. 
I might not share the same interests but it's still nice to read. I may not change my opinion but I respect when someone makes me pause and think, "hmm" so continue to do you. 

Maybe it's the wording... "I know how you feel" rubs me the wrong way. 
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#rant Anyways, while I was away I had a increased amount of time to think about my life. How I was feeling (compared to not feeling at all) and why I am more drawn to games like vp v. rs, and I stumbled upon my loneliness again. I spend most of my days alone, most of my weekends alone just being here, watching stuff or doing homework but I try to wrestle some joy into my bones by doing stuff, engaging and making things happen here that I wish I could do with people in real life. My closest support is my bunny. Which require everyday attention now that my sister returned for school in fall and how that sometimes feels heavy. I was thinking about all the times I put my faith in circumstances to get me out of my undeniable bad effort in gaining friends and trust, and for myself, trusting others enough to mention anything that isn't superficial. I was thinking about many reasons why I am like this and how it regardless is my own responsibility to grow out of that at a point. Like with many other things. I was thinking about how I have known for so many years that I ger addicted to games like these, and how it most likely relate to my own loneliness. 
I was also grieving, and paying attention and learning about myself and ways to define actions in life like I used to love doing before it started hurting too much. I liked that. It was hard but good. There's a long time since I thought life only could to be easy to be good. 
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MissLondon wrote:
Nesta wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Welcome back, nice to have threads that make sense 

I don't think of it as anything more than the person relates. 
Thanks. I am here and back on my bullshit.

Hm. I've never really considered as a way to say you relate. I've always seen it more as a) a offer of support or b) a way to try normalise what you're going through by saying there are many people experiencing the same/similar thing. 
I might not share the same interests but it's still nice to read. I may not change my opinion but I respect when someone makes me pause and think, "hmm" so continue to do you. 

Maybe it's the wording... "I know how you feel" rubs me the wrong way. 
That's good. I don't know what else to do unless write less, I guess. 

That's like when mada took up the annoyances of same/mood, etc. a short while ago. Maybe it is because it may feel like you're not being properly heard. There's an assumption in it, I feel like, that by relating and only that undermine that feeling of (especially) hurt that you probably were trying to console by offering up whatever you're shearing in the first place. That I know how you feel brushes it all over without asking questions about the specific situation which make come across as a disinterest in it. 
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