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devilcake wrote:
You really need to think about why he is doing the things he is doing. Like this is someone twice your age who hit his wife, not on the arm, but in the head over an argument (even if she was bad too thats very extreme!), and then later went on to date someone half is age (and if i remember right, his daughters age), it sounds like he has a lot of things that he has not dealt with yet, and that he needs to deal with before he's ready to enter a relationship-- if that is something you have been considering. He probably needs to go to therapy to sort his things out, and that shouldn't be on you! It honestly sounds like any relationship he would get into right now, whether it would be with someone closer to his age or not, runs a high risk of being kind of toxic, even if you both have the best of intentions going into it!
Clegane wrote:
yeah idk, also sorry for being harsh i know it doesnt really help in this sort of situations. I think often when guys date younger women you gotta keep in mind that there is usually a reason why he is not dating someone closer to his own age (ie, closer to himself in terms of life experience) and often the reasons for this are going to become issues later on.devilcake wrote:
are u one of the veepers whos talking about dating someone 10 years older recently n saying its fine cause ur mature or smth, theres been a couple recently and if that was u, and now this u should probably get out of there before he does the same to you, lets be real.
I mean my first (long term) relationship was with another older guy, eventhough he was just 16 years older and it was pretty much bad all around but while I'm not in a relationship with this current man yet I'm scared I'll get trapped in a circle of the same thing happening over and over again are u one of the veepers whos talking about dating someone 10 years older recently n saying its fine cause ur mature or smth, theres been a couple recently and if that was u, and now this u should probably get out of there before he does the same to you, lets be real.
You really need to think about why he is doing the things he is doing. Like this is someone twice your age who hit his wife, not on the arm, but in the head over an argument (even if she was bad too thats very extreme!), and then later went on to date someone half is age (and if i remember right, his daughters age), it sounds like he has a lot of things that he has not dealt with yet, and that he needs to deal with before he's ready to enter a relationship-- if that is something you have been considering. He probably needs to go to therapy to sort his things out, and that shouldn't be on you! It honestly sounds like any relationship he would get into right now, whether it would be with someone closer to his age or not, runs a high risk of being kind of toxic, even if you both have the best of intentions going into it!
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