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irl or here
past or present

i'm just curious

if u dont have friends, what makes up an ideal friend?

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Bloodflowers wrote:
what is the question

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Bloodflowers wrote:
oh i thought you wrote "talk to your friends"

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Paramore wrote:
oh i thought you wrote "talk to your friends"

naw

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yall lame

anyways
4/7 of my friends are moms
3 of them are tauruses, 2 sags, 1 leo, & 1 aries
all have tattoos wtf im the only one without tattoos
they're all into spirituality/tarot readings/astrology & shit
most of them are older than me, only 2 are younger
they're bitchy lol

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My online friends are amazing! has like the same taste and interest like me and we discuss feminism and other political topics from different viewpoints but also kind of coming to the same conclusion. *u* and she's very fun and sweet!

My irl friends are also amazing!
Dennis is this really fun guy who likes to party and dance and sing kareoke with me. He also cooks me food sometimes and have a great sense of humor. We just laugh a lot hanging out.

Aya is really cool and likes to do arts and crafts with me. And we talk a loooot, usually we stay up all night and do crafts and talk. We like to talk about life and personality issues and how we can be better people. We also party and drink but not as much.

Lina is really chill. She talks a lot too. More than me. I listen more when I'm with her. We usually sit at her place talking and drinking pepsi max. Or play sims! We have one family in sims 3 at my place and one in sims 4 at her place. She's really giving but can also be manipulating without realizing it XD But it's okay bc I know she doesn't want to do anything negative to me really. We also party and drink sometimes.

Linnea is a train conductor that looks like a playboy model. She is really loving and kind and amazing. I've known her the longest. But I rarely see her anymore bc she's very bussy with job and boyfriend and sister who's preggo. She's really smart but people usually don't get that and thinks she is stupid bc she's so nice. Which is annoying and funny at the same time. She has really dark humor tho XD we also laugh a lot hanging out. Like. To nothing really. I've done some pretty crazy shit with her and when we were 22 it was the best time in our lives and we always remeniss about stuff we did back then. Which is kind of sad. But also sweet.

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i feel like i can't love my friends anymore????
like because of my mental health situation i find like pretty much everything super annoying all the time so it's hard to be genuine which makes it hard to have conversations and stuff also bc of my social anxiety im bad at holding conversations even with my best friends it sucks :/

but i think my best friends are meeri and aki........????+ it's just that they're both the people who make me the most annoyed and i don't think it's because of them it's just that idk ME lol

meeri is super positive and stuff she is a great party friend but she doesn't really understand that when im feelin anxious (always) i don't want her to like try to cheer me up and i've said it but she doesn't understand it and it just makes things worse and ughhhhhhhhhhh hhhh then im usually super mean to her and she gets hurt and lol this happens almost everyday at school
we also had this huge fight on friday and things have been kinda weird since then..... i think??

aki is this great guy who never means to be selfish or anything but just sometimes he just is lol
he's just super confident and a direct person so it might seem like he's a.. dick XD TO THE closest persons not like just hanging out friends it's hard to explain
and he doesn't always understand other peoples anxiety especially about body image issues but it's ok only you can really understand it

these might also be only things that are only in my imagination lol

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my best friend is pretty cool
we don't see each other that much because we are both busy
but when we do we are able to just sit and talk for ages
i've known her since high school (for around 8-9 years now)
we like shopping together (even though our styles are different, her style is dark and goth inspired lol)
and playing games together like mario or warcraft
and we bond over mutual dislike towards our ex-best friend lmao

my ex best friend was someone who i was so happy to meet
she was my first ~true~ friend and we really bonded
but now she is full of false words (all talk, no action) and we don't talk anymore
she is obsessed with festivals, clubbing and drugs
which is like.. ok.. you be you, but please stop talking about yourself and your interests 24/7

my other best friends are online friends (who both live in different parts of australia wooOOO)
but they both don't use social media much (losers) so its hard to stay in touch
one i met through gsm years ago, we've been friends since i was like 14
we talk on the phone a lot and we are complete opposites in every single way
and the other friend i met through VP (but she quit)
and we bonded because we studied a similar degree through the same uni
and we are both as bitchy as each other

(i've just realised that every single person i;ve mentioned here has had an account on here LOL)

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here's my thing is is literally one of my best friends like of all my friends and i dont feel like internet friendships are somehow less than ones where you meet someone in person. DOUG Is all 'claire you need real friends' and im like uhhh do you think she's an AI or something????? im not being catfished????????? like this girl clearly gets me even tho she's a million miles away it always amazes me how much i can have in common with a person on the other side of the planet ;-; ;-; andlike whatever is going on in my life i feel like i can message her for some judgement free real talk she'll tell me if im ovverrreacting and i need that sometimes i overreact and she's the BEST PIXEL ARTIST EVER and has great taste in aesthetics that like creepy kawaii shit is my jam and also she's pretty. idk if yall seen pix but she pretty. but also I'm starting to think that literally everyone from Sweden is pretty and it's just a thing idk.

okay and my best friend Adam he is a poet and i miss him all the time.we meet freshman year of high school so we've been friends like fifteen years now and idk he's really smart and too smart for his own good but he's real depressed and has a real hard time sometimes but he just went to rehab for the drugs so im hoping things will be getting better for him i miss him and im worried about him cause of the rehab thing and this other stuff that's going on with him but i think because he checked into rehab things might start to change and get better. he's writing poetry again and he's been taking photos again so i think that's a good sign. he's got really low selfesteem but its stupid because literally everyone loves him. i don't know anybody who would be like 'i don't like that adam guy'. his family is mexican he's mexican-american and i miss going to his house in the summer and having real mexican food his mom makes. he didn't talk to me much over the last two years i think he was hiding the drug thing from me : ( but he called me when he got out of rehab and now he's calling like once a week so i have lots of hope right now. also he's super cute like majorly attractive. and he was the first person to ever buy art from me ;-; ;-;

and my sister is my best friend and she's working on her PHD in philosophy and she's smarter than me and my parents and everyone else i know and she has three cats. she likes wine and she plays guitar and sings REALLY good and writes her own songs. she's not weird like me she's the cool one probably. shes only 18 months younger than me so we're really close in age like almost twins and i talk to her on facebook like almost every day and we send each other meme and articles to read and all kinds of stuff.

and doug i guess lol. i think it's important for lovers to be friends and we have fun and not just like romance we hang out you know? i think that's important so Doug is my best friend too but i probably talk about him enough lmao.

and cause CLEARLLY this matters, Terror, Adam is a Cancer, my sister is a Scorpio and Doug's a Leo and I'm an Aries. Adam is really into astrology he's the only reason I know anything about it lol. He's into lots of mysticism type things like crystals and tarot and stuff.
: )

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AWwww man claire btw I don't think less of our friendship bc it's online but I feel like I wanna mention it so people don't wonder why I don't hang out with you XD hahahaha.

Also!!! she is so positive, mostly (I mean, we all have bad days and periods in our life but I'm talking generally! ) and she's so smart too! If you guys ever get advice from her you should take it! Bc she knows what she's talking about. *u*
And I'm really proud of her and her quitting smoking.
Have you noticed how much she's improved???? It's one of the toughest things to do and people gave her a lot of shit and made it even harder for her but she didn't stop. And now she's mellowing out and I think that's so strong!!!

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Claire wrote:

ad0xa wrote:
AWwww man claire btw I don't think less of our friendship bc it's online but I feel like I wanna mention it so people don't wonder why I don't hang out with you XD hahahaha.

Also!!! she is so positive, mostly (I mean, we all have bad days and periods in our life but I'm talking generally! ) and she's so smart too! If you guys ever get advice from her you should take it! Bc she knows what she's talking about. *u*
And I'm really proud of her and her quitting smoking.
Have you noticed how much she's improved???? It's one of the toughest things to do and people gave her a lot of shit and made it even harder for her but she didn't stop. And now she's mellowing out and I think that's so strong!!!

omg this is too nice i could cry stopppppppp lmao ;-; i literally am gonna fly to sweden one day when i have money just to hug you i swear to the lords.

hey by the way is Linnea a common name in Sweden? I also have a friend with that name but she goes by Nea. I'd never heard the name before I met my Nea and I think she's like embarassed to have a unique name?

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Zöe (Hypoxic) is literally the most amazing person I have ever met. We talk about anything and everything, I've never been able to be so open to anyone before. I thi k my irl friends are a little jealous cuz I talk about her so much xD im hopefully going to visit her this year and i swear to god im gonna cry the whole time xD

As for irl friends, Mike and Carter have been my friends for 10 years, and there's no bullshit between us. Even though we live in different towns now, we skype/play games almost every night.

Thomas is one of the nicest guys I've ever met. He's so quiet, which is the opposite myself, yet we get along so well. I thi k I bring out his crazy side a bit haha. He's great. They all are

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Claire wrote:

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AWwww man claire btw I don't think less of our friendship bc it's online but I feel like I wanna mention it so people don't wonder why I don't hang out with you XD hahahaha.

Also!!! she is so positive, mostly (I mean, we all have bad days and periods in our life but I'm talking generally! ) and she's so smart too! If you guys ever get advice from her you should take it! Bc she knows what she's talking about. *u*
And I'm really proud of her and her quitting smoking.
Have you noticed how much she's improved???? It's one of the toughest things to do and people gave her a lot of shit and made it even harder for her but she didn't stop. And now she's mellowing out and I think that's so strong!!!

omg this is too nice i could cry stopppppppp lmao ;-; i literally am gonna fly to sweden one day when i have money just to hug you i swear to the lords.

hey by the way is Linnea a common name in Sweden? I also have a friend with that name but she goes by Nea. I'd never heard the name before I met my Nea and I think she's like embarassed to have a unique name?

Yeah Linnea is super common here. I know at least 3-4. It's a flowers name too!

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ion have any friends and ig i ive never really had any.

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i hav a lot of friends that ive met via vp and honestly, i feel so blessed to even have this opportunity. while id love to talk abt my friends that are currently on here (cause they mean a lot to me), i wanna talk abt those that aren’t here anymore. to be more specific, lara and casper. i remember that whenever id see casper in threads, i was imitated by him and also rly afraid to message him. i regret that; i shouldve messaged him earlier. he’s this honest type, but hey, i like that abt him. and mostly, he also showed interest in people’s threads. there was this thread that ley/troublemaker had created and you know, casper? he was there for her. he’s remarkable and idk if he’s ever going to see this, but casper, i appreciate you. im glad i sent you a message on here, my only regret being that it hurts me to know that you probs felt unwelcome. which is so unfair, people should’ve gotten to know you. im always here if u need me and u can always find me on ig, if u ever decide to return. and lara, what’s to say abt her ? she has an amazing music taste, she’s sweet and her writing is breathtaking and amazes me so fucking much i can’t even. i was also intimidated by her, but i adored her at the same time. heck, i still do adore her. same goes for casper. lara was treated unfairly as well and some people were really ruthless towards her. it makes me so pissed, esp when i know how it can affect someone. the words someone write online can be so damaging and )- : it kills me. lara, you’re loved and im glad i can call you my friend. whenever u need me, u can find me on ig. and honestly, im glad i can call both of u my friends. just know that im forever thankful for the two of you. god, i could go on and on abt how much i love u but dsjksdjkidssji it’s probs best if I don’t. i want everything good to happen to you and unfortunately life is twisted in its own way. it’s not fair. what im trying to say is that i often think abt u guys and yeah, ily so much ?? thanks for being who you are.
another thing, lara and casper’s friendship warms my heart so fucking much. im glad u guys have each other, u both deserve to have someone there. just,, thanks. thanks from the bottom of my heart (is that even how the saying goes?)

ps, lara - i know it’s hard, but don’t let anyone steal your light. im in Love with the pictures u take and !! whenever you’ve written anything new, i get so excited

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AWwww man claire btw I don't think less of our friendship bc it's online but I feel like I wanna mention it so people don't wonder why I don't hang out with you XD hahahaha.

Also!!! she is so positive, mostly (I mean, we all have bad days and periods in our life but I'm talking generally! ) and she's so smart too! If you guys ever get advice from her you should take it! Bc she knows what she's talking about. *u*
And I'm really proud of her and her quitting smoking.
Have you noticed how much she's improved???? It's one of the toughest things to do and people gave her a lot of shit and made it even harder for her but she didn't stop. And now she's mellowing out and I think that's so strong!!!

omg this is too nice i could cry stopppppppp lmao ;-; i literally am gonna fly to sweden one day when i have money just to hug you i swear to the lords.

hey by the way is Linnea a common name in Sweden? I also have a friend with that name but she goes by Nea. I'd never heard the name before I met my Nea and I think she's like embarassed to have a unique name?

Yeah Linnea is super common here. I know at least 3-4. It's a flowers name too!

oh woooooooow my nea shouldn't be embarasssed. it's preettty flower.