Flamink wrote:
it's okay to stand up for your boyfriend but please remember yourself. theres 2 in a relationship and so far it sounds like its him fucking around and you just being left behind feeling insecure. that is not a healthy relationship no matter how you try to make excuses for him. i cant force you to suddenly stop but I hope you'll think about it
Adaarda wrote:
listen, i understand that you love him a lot probably and you have had some good times together. but you're making excuses for him and dismissing whats important - how you feel. you said you're very insecure - your bf should know that and respect that despite having trouble with social cues. saying "i feel very insecure about you being with another girl" is okay to say and if he dismisses it with ''i just didn't know that'', then he is clearly lying.Flamink wrote:
if your relationship is fine you wouldnt rather have him be with someone else
I just want him to have sex with her, not break up with me. And the first thing, idk, but he cant really think very far and how others will react and social cues n stuff, so thats not his fault really Adaarda wrote:
Its not like that, we are fine, im just very insecure
if he knows that hes still a piece of shit for not thinking about how it would make you feelIts not like that, we are fine, im just very insecure
if your relationship is fine you wouldnt rather have him be with someone else
it's okay to stand up for your boyfriend but please remember yourself. theres 2 in a relationship and so far it sounds like its him fucking around and you just being left behind feeling insecure. that is not a healthy relationship no matter how you try to make excuses for him. i cant force you to suddenly stop but I hope you'll think about it