junkiekid wrote:bee wrote:junkiekid wrote:
maybe you should talk to him and tell him that you feel kind of left out and that it would be nice if you guys could do something together some time
talking is very important in a relationship so he knows that this makes you feel bad
maybe he thinks you don't like doing these things too much so he doesn't ask because he thinks you're gonna say no or something idk
but a talk can clear things up
im not good at talking about things and i reverse it inside my head a thousand times but when im with him i can never get it out. i know how important it is to talk and be honest in a relationship but i also dont want him to just invite me along because he feels bad for me i want him to want me to come you know. its not even about him im just sad i cant have the same and he is the only source to socializing i have so it makes me sad that he is not giving me the opportunity to have fun too
I get that, I'm really bad at talking to people as well and expressing myself but after time it does get easier.
Maybe you can text him instead of talking to him?
it would be easier to just text him yea but i would rather say it face to face cus it feels more real and its kinda an important topic