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Pastelice
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pastelice wrote:
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Date: 16-02-2018 02:10
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pastelice wrote:
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Date: 18-02-2018 23:26
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coco wrote:
i have v low self esteem even tho i act confident and stuff 
my bf is perfect in looks, personality, how he treats others, sports, academic, etc

and im just here, a live potato walking around

he compliments me a lot and it makes me happy, but it doesnt really do much to my esteem lol
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Date: 18-02-2018 23:29
Pastelice
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pastelice wrote:
Brihanna wrote:
i have v low self esteem even tho i act confident and stuff 
my bf is perfect in looks, personality, how he treats others, sports, academic, etc

and im just here, a live potato walking around

he compliments me a lot and it makes me happy, but it doesnt really do much to my esteem lol
okay, so what do you want me to help you with? there isn't exactly a question to help me know what you need me to advise you on. @Brihanna 
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Date: 19-02-2018 01:19
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coco wrote:
pastelice wrote:
Brihanna wrote:
i have v low self esteem even tho i act confident and stuff 
my bf is perfect in looks, personality, how he treats others, sports, academic, etc

and im just here, a live potato walking around

he compliments me a lot and it makes me happy, but it doesnt really do much to my esteem lol
okay, so what do you want me to help you with? there isn't exactly a question to help me know what you need me to advise you on. @Brihanna 
how do i have a normal self esteem
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Date: 19-02-2018 01:54
Pastelice
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pastelice wrote:
Brihanna wrote:
pastelice wrote:
Brihanna wrote:
i have v low self esteem even tho i act confident and stuff 
my bf is perfect in looks, personality, how he treats others, sports, academic, etc

and im just here, a live potato walking around

he compliments me a lot and it makes me happy, but it doesnt really do much to my esteem lol
okay, so what do you want me to help you with? there isn't exactly a question to help me know what you need me to advise you on. @Brihanna 
how do i have a normal self esteem

as someone who used to have a low self esteem and still kinda does, its hard. once it's low, it's hard to pick back up. but you have to first accept your flaws. here's some things to help your self-esteem

1. dress in what makes you feel good
2. start slowly accepting your flaws
3. groom yourself however you do often (i shave my legs, pluck my eyebrows, moisturize)

after you do all that, you'll feel your self esteem start to rise. eventually, you'll get there. but it wont just take a couple weeks. it takes a couple months and more. it's something that doesnt happen automatically.
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Date: 19-02-2018 01:58
Pastelice
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pastelice wrote:
@Brihanna 
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Date: 19-02-2018 01:58
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Harumi wrote:
How do I confront my friend about her shitty attitude that hates to be confronted?

To make you understand what I mean with bad attitude: she only does thing that favors her, she doesn't pay attention to others, she talks bad about everybody but acts beties with them in front of them, she only cares about herself and her wellbeing, she slacks off in school, she's on her phone 24/7 even when people talk to her and she's acting really different than who she is.

I hate to see all her hard work go to waste, she used to be so nice to everybody and was a good friend. Her grades were the best and I always knew she would have my back as I had hers. But now she's completely different and I really worry for her. She's destroying all the good things in her life, like relationships, friendships, grades and hell even herself.
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Date: 19-02-2018 01:59 | Times changed: 1
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Is there a way to make the fries crispy in the oven?
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Date: 19-02-2018 02:07
Pastelice
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pastelice wrote:
Harumi wrote:
How do I confront my friend about her shitty attitude that hates to be confronted?

To make you understand what I mean with bad attitude: she only does thing that favors her, she doesn't pay attention to others, she talks bad about everybody but acts beties with them in front of them, she only cares about herself and her wellbeing, she slacks off in school, she's on her phone 24/7 even when people talk to her and she's acting really different than who she is.

I hate to see all her hard work go to waste, she used to be so nice to everybody and was a good friend. Her grades were the best and I always knew she would have my back as I had hers. But now she's completely different and I really worry for her. She's destroying all the good things in her life, like relationships, friendships, grades and hell even herself.
She may hate to be confronted, but the only choice is to confront her at this point. It's best to be assertive, not aggressive or passive, which is basically being firm but not mean. Use "I feel..." statements rather than accusing her so she doesn't feel attacked. If she realizes what you mean and she changes, good. If she doesn't change, that's a toxic friend and I recommend dropping her as a friend. Eventually, she'll turn on you.

As someone who had a friend like this, I relate. You simply have to either:

1. Work it out
2. Drop her

You do not need someone who does negative things in your life. If she refuses to be helped, she can spiral down to rock bottom and she may have to learn the hard way that she needed to change. If she decides to be helped, the best way is to support her. @Harumi 
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Date: 19-02-2018 02:11
Pastelice
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pastelice wrote:
Paramore wrote:
Is there a way to make the fries crispy in the oven?
Look on the package of fries to check how to make them crispy. If it doesn't specify, I believe you add two minutes to the time it was originally cooked to, unless the fries are made to be crispy, then don't do that.

Also, although I appreciate your attempt at joking around, please keep in mind this is a serious thread (: Thanks @Paramore 
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Date: 19-02-2018 02:13
Harumi
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Harumi wrote:
pastelice wrote:
Harumi wrote:
How do I confront my friend about her shitty attitude that hates to be confronted?

To make you understand what I mean with bad attitude: she only does thing that favors her, she doesn't pay attention to others, she talks bad about everybody but acts beties with them in front of them, she only cares about herself and her wellbeing, she slacks off in school, she's on her phone 24/7 even when people talk to her and she's acting really different than who she is.

I hate to see all her hard work go to waste, she used to be so nice to everybody and was a good friend. Her grades were the best and I always knew she would have my back as I had hers. But now she's completely different and I really worry for her. She's destroying all the good things in her life, like relationships, friendships, grades and hell even herself.
She may hate to be confronted, but the only choice is to confront her at this point. It's best to be assertive, not aggressive or passive, which is basically being firm but not mean. Use "I feel..." statements rather than accusing her so she doesn't feel attacked. If she realizes what you mean and she changes, good. If she doesn't change, that's a toxic friend and I recommend dropping her as a friend. Eventually, she'll turn on you.

As someone who had a friend like this, I relate. You simply have to either:

1. Work it out
2. Drop her

You do not need someone who does negative things in your life. If she refuses to be helped, she can spiral down to rock bottom and she may have to learn the hard way that she needed to change. If she decides to be helped, the best way is to support her. @Harumi 

Thanks
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I can't sleep
Date: 19-02-2018 02:35
Pastelice
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pastelice wrote:
disintegration wrote:
I can't sleep
Do you know why you can't sleep? @disintegration 
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Date: 19-02-2018 02:47
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pastelice wrote:
boop
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