Do you like yourself?? - Forum

MischMisch
Streetmusician

MischMisch wrote:
i am mostly happy how i look

i think i have a cute face and i look okey in cosplays and j-fashoin

Filth
International star

Filth wrote:
Ehh I'm alright

CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:

MischMisch wrote:
i am mostly happy how i look

i think i have a cute face and i look okey in cosplays and j-fashoin

I bet youre supercute!!

CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:

Ennui wrote:
Ehh I'm alright

i love your outfit right now

CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:

mareu wrote:
ah uh
uh..
no

well, i never have so its hard to suddenly like myself when i hate every single thing about me. but im trying... i think?

i think its possible to slowly learn and realize that there are a lot of good things about you. a lot of people only concentrate on negative aspects of their selves bc thats usually how were taught to become better - by isolating whats bad and get rid of it. but this kinda midset only makes you focus on bad things and like trains you to look for only the negative stuff and then suddenly it becomes all you see when in actuality theres at least just as much (if not more) positive stuff as well thats gets ignored.
so maybe its good to remember that theres always tons of good stuff too and try to actively look for it and if you feel like you still cant see it, try to MAKE good stuff (happen)

idk who said it but happiness is more of a performative act than a fleeting mood or state. being (maybe not consciously but still) actively unhappy theres little in the outside world that will change that

also sorry i hope you dont feel like i wanna berate you its just a lot of things ive had in mind rn and thought might be helpful ;v;

CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:

beholder wrote:
I love myself, but I hate some of the things I did when I was younger. But I remind myself that it doesn't define who I am now and in the future, all I can do is try my best since the past is set while the future is yet to be.

this is a really good mentality!!

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sp00kz wrote:
no, but im working on accepting myself

Private
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kanelie wrote:
yup

CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:

punch wrote:

sp00kz wrote:
no, but im working on accepting myself

youll get there i believe in you u3u

Private
World famous

Cute wrote:
i don't like how i look but i think im pretty decent personality

CoolDood
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CoolDood wrote:

Cute wrote:
i don't like how i look but i think im pretty decent personality

i bet you look very nice also

Alwin
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alwin wrote:
hell yeah i like myself

Peep
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peep wrote:
at least i like my music taste

HeyitsKarlee
Youtube star

HeyitsKarlee wrote:
i guess i like myself sometimes, idk though. i have been starting to feel more comfortable in the way that i look, but i get mad at myself bc my personality and the way i am fucks my life up a lot.

RavenBones
World famous

RavenBones wrote:
I like how I look, when I have a good skin day lol
My personality is ok, but my anxiety makes me not like myself that much