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Dealbreakers
Chello
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Chello wrote:
What do you think would be dealbreakers in a relationship?
If your long-term partner suddenly changed into something you disliked, would that also be a dealbreaker?
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Date: 07-06-2026 12:41
Solar
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Solar wrote:
before dating someone a dealbreaker for me would be; right-wing, or very conservative/traditional, someone with unassuming hobbies (i hope this doesn't sound mean lol) but i have weird hobbies so if im with someone super normal i would feel very uncomfortable 

long-term partner suddenly changing would complicate things i think bc im pretty loyal but if it becomes too much i would break up w them ,.. like if someone suddenly becomes racist or sexist or homophobic i wouldnt stay lMAO but if it was something smaller i might learn to deal with it...
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Date: 07-06-2026 12:55
Solar
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Solar wrote:
what about u chello? 
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Date: 07-06-2026 12:55
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devilcake wrote:
Aside from the obviousnlike suddenly turning out to be a right winger or abuser or whatevah my current main deal breaker if I were to meet someone now that’s like insta nah this ain’t going further is having like no sense of personal style cos it signals to me they’re boring and have no sense of identity n that’s a worse crime than having a bad sense of style fr

ao ig translated to a long term relationship ig if they suddenly decided to become a normie or smth 🤧
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Date: 07-06-2026 13:27 | Times changed: 1
Private
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Suchomimus wrote:
ive found out it's romance apparently 
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Date: 07-06-2026 13:29
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devilcake wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
ive found out it's romance apparently 
Would you have any deal breakers in a queer platonic relationship or do you also think you wouldn’t do a qpr
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Date: 07-06-2026 13:30
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
If she hates Sleep Token that would not work out
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Date: 07-06-2026 13:44
Aske
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Aske wrote:
incompatible moral values, not respecting boundaries and stuff like that obv but also using ai, doing stock trading and like. not being interested in the world around you idk. having a dog im sorry im horrible for this but i cant do it genuinely 

i mean it kinda depends right, did i notice something bad i had been blind to before or did they actually rapidly change? because that id find super concerning and worry for their health and mental well being before anything else i think
ive experienced suddenly seeing someones 'true colours' with family and friends before, and it really depends on the person and how close we are honestly. the friendship i dropped instantly as if it was radioactive waste, but with my family memebr i cant do it regardless of how mortified i am because i know the huge capacity she has for love and compassion, there has to be a way to reach beyond the brainwash and open her heart to everyone she has shut out of it idk. thats slightly off topic i guess, but  id imagine that on a scale a partner would fall somewhere in the middle of those two? like id try to reach them, but not forever, if theyre determined to be someone i cant love then so be it. thats very hypothetical tho ive never been in love with someone 
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Date: 07-06-2026 13:53
Obliviate
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Obliviate wrote:
If they're masking their personality, feelings, opinions etc
Hiding their past, like debt or crime
Being rude to people without a reason
Being far right or far left politically
Using drugs/abusing alcohol
Not liking dogs
Being religious

I would eventually break it off if someone I have been in a relationship with would change rapidly over night and it can't be explained medically
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Date: 07-06-2026 14:49 | Times changed: 1
Meister
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Meister wrote:
One big thing for me is that they cant handle money.
I dont care if you have a job that gives you 35k each month or getting help from the government if you cant work. But if you spend it on fun stuff and dont pay bills, rents and so on and the person starts to lie, ask for money to pay for things and then buys other things.
Or if you use the money to gamble and so on.
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Date: 07-06-2026 15:00
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Sylvan wrote:
Started smoking/drinking doing other drugs
Stopped cutting nails (hands + toes) properly (I have such a dislike for wrong toenails kt's kind of a phobia)
Also specific clothing styles that give off such a weird vibe like I don't think I could be with someone who wears beige pants and those ugly brown leather sandals or like that typical middle aged german person style.
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Date: 07-06-2026 15:36
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lain wrote:
Obliviate wrote:
If they're masking their personality, feelings, opinions etc
Hiding their past, like debt or crime
Being rude to people without a reason
Being far right or far left politically
Using drugs/abusing alcohol
Not liking dogs
Being religious

I would eventually break it off if someone I have been in a relationship with would change rapidly over night and it can't be explained medically
omg this happened with my partner BUT medically (stroke) and it was really hard to navigate! hes mostly back to how he was before now, but its scary how quickly things can change
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Date: 07-06-2026 15:41
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lain wrote:
anyways apart from the obvious

being mean or rude 
not liking animals 
allergic to whimsy 
hiding stuff 
not communicating
no interests or hobbies of their own 
having no clue about politics or anything happening in the world  
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Date: 07-06-2026 15:48
Meister
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Meister wrote:
lain wrote:
anyways apart from the obvious

being mean or rude 
not liking animals 
allergic to whimsy 
hiding stuff 
not communicating
no interests or hobbies of their own 
having no clue about politics or anything happening in the world  
Imagine how many problems the could be solved if both persons just sits down and talk about what they are unhappy with. People are not mind readers and cant change if they dont know what is wrong.
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Date: 07-06-2026 15:54
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bexxi wrote:
lain wrote:
Obliviate wrote:
If they're masking their personality, feelings, opinions etc
Hiding their past, like debt or crime
Being rude to people without a reason
Being far right or far left politically
Using drugs/abusing alcohol
Not liking dogs
Being religious

I would eventually break it off if someone I have been in a relationship with would change rapidly over night and it can't be explained medically
omg this happened with my partner BUT medically (stroke) and it was really hard to navigate! hes mostly back to how he was before now, but its scary how quickly things can change
omg scary, can u like catch a break? not you and ur partner having serious health scares ... but really good that u guys got through it and that hes betetr now. u hopefully soon as well!!
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Date: 07-06-2026 17:03
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bexxi wrote:
and im not sure this is very theoretical for me because the last time i dated was when i was 14 lol

i think when the person changes suddenly and u cant like resolve it with talking abt it and you dont like the "new person" ur partner turned out to be thats very fair to break up over 
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Date: 07-06-2026 17:04
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