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Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:

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Koolaid wrote:

Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:

i laughed bc of your wording but i agree xd

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hungover wrote:

Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:

This.

It's because of those fucking micro-trends, people change their fashion every other week.

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Raquelle wrote:

hungover wrote:

Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:

This.

It's because of those fucking micro-trends, people change their fashion every other week.

Yea
and also
all these Aesthetics and trends around them are killing personal style
teens don’t know how to wear a graphic tee without copying an entire outfit from someone else... so they need to buy the entire outfit.
ugh
i have a lot of fashion opinions today
for a bitch who only wears band tees and pants 😂

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hungover wrote:

Raquelle wrote:

hungover wrote:

Raquelle wrote:
hyper fast fashion is always bad i don’t care if you’re fat and or poor
we didn’t buy an entire new wardrobe every year in the past decades, just invest in good quality pieces and you won’t need some cheap looking pants in every color every month... or buy second hand if you must consume so damn much /:

This.

It's because of those fucking micro-trends, people change their fashion every other week.

Yea
and also
all these Aesthetics and trends around them are killing personal style
teens don’t know how to wear a graphic tee without copying an entire outfit from someone else... so they need to buy the entire outfit.
ugh
i have a lot of fashion opinions today
for a bitch who only wears band tees and pants 😂

Lol, me too, and I have like ... 3 outfits that I wear and all of them include patches on clothes and then my vest ofc

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Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one

I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones

TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??

Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child!

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Alam wrote:

Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one

I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones

TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??

Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child!

It's selfish and primitive goodbye

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Koolaid wrote:

Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one

I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones

TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??

Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child!

having children is selfish because the child did not decide to live

and

you can still have children despite that because we cannot be puritanical monks. something u do will always be selfish, whether that is not recycling, or eating meat, or not buying fairtrade, or plastic straws etc etc etc

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Alam wrote:

Koolaid wrote:

Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one

I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones

TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??

Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child!

having children is selfish because the child did not decide to live

and

you can still have children despite that because we cannot be puritanical monks. something u do will always be selfish, whether that is not recycling, or eating meat, or not buying fairtrade, or plastic straws etc etc etc

Caring about the environment is all the rage but somehow when it comes to having more children people are skittish about saying anything, even though it's one of the worst things you can do to the environment as an individual.

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Sylvan wrote:

Alam wrote:

Koolaid wrote:

Clegane wrote:
I don't get people who say it's cruel to have a biological child and not adopt an existing one

I think it's cruel that (these are not the circumstances for all adoptions obviously) people who are unfit to care or don't want their child, can bring it into this world and then just disregard their duty
while meanwhile people who would like to have their own children, should take care of the others ones

TW!

I feel like people will hate me for this but I've seen so many cases in the hospital of drug using parents, alcoholic parents, abusive parents, people who literally hate their baby
And that they can birth it and then just not care?
And I who would, out of a partnership of love, be so happy to have a biological child should be called cruel for not adopting one?? Like ??

Of course I would consider adopting as well.
But I want at least 1 biological child!

having children is selfish because the child did not decide to live

and

you can still have children despite that because we cannot be puritanical monks. something u do will always be selfish, whether that is not recycling, or eating meat, or not buying fairtrade, or plastic straws etc etc etc

Caring about the environment is all the rage but somehow when it comes to having more children people are skittish about saying anything, even though it's one of the worst things you can do to the environment as an individual.

having more than 2 children is actively hurting the planet
but people get defensive when it is about having children

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Claire wrote:
Police don’t protect women they protect abusers. Look at what happened to gabby petito and that cop giggling with the abuser about how bitches be crazy. Or shit look at sarah everhard.

https://theconversation.com/amp/police-reporting-can-undermine-domestic-violence-victims-language-analysis-shows-170931

like idk how true that 40% statistic that gets talked about is but like policing isn’t trauma informed and a lot of cops literally abuse women so cops are good because they help women is not the take you think it is

Again, that is probably very true in the US, but not everywhere

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Claire I appreciate you a lot but not everything revolve around the US

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Koolaid wrote:

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having more than 2 children is actively hurting the planet
but people get defensive when it is about having children

it's not that i disagree w u, it's more that i think sometimes it's okay to be selfish

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commander2 wrote:
I'm not in the mood to write a lot but now that I'm a lot more educated on adoption, adoptees and their experiences etc. I absolutely loathe people who say you should just adopt 'instead of making more children', especially because it often reeks of a saviour complex which is already not a good trait to have as an adoptive parent.

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autism wrote:

commander2 wrote:
I'm not in the mood to write a lot but now that I'm a lot more educated on adoption, adoptees and their experiences etc. I absolutely loathe people who say you should just adopt 'instead of making more children', especially because it often reeks of a saviour complex which is already not a good trait to have as an adoptive parent.

very much agreed