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floge wrote:
that whole debate is so stupid, if theyre so mad about people not wanting to use tonetags they can go over to everskies
where are they mad about that
Date: 18-12-2022 16:48
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Rui wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Nesta wrote:
WUG your magazines makes me cry, they are hilarious
also tell me if you wanna have the red unique hair i won as hostage while i borrow the summer dress from you 
can i have the red unique hair you won as a hostage im poor
no, sorry
Date: 18-12-2022 16:48
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guys i have a great idea its called dont respond to the troll 
Date: 18-12-2022 16:48
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Rui wrote:
guys i have a great idea its called dont respond to the troll 
and bump my topic instead
Date: 18-12-2022 16:48
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Nesta wrote:
Rui wrote:
Nesta wrote:
also tell me if you wanna have the red unique hair i won as hostage while i borrow the summer dress from you 
can i have the red unique hair you won as a hostage im poor
no, sorry
i love how you’re saying sorry for that. you’re very kind
Date: 18-12-2022 16:48
Ashnikko
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Ashnikko wrote:
Mymble wrote:
wug wrote:
Mymble wrote:
yes this is what i mean yes 
i dont tell people im autistic irl unless it is necessary, because when ive told old friends they end up treating me differently and i dont understand that logic  
i think most people i interact with online are autistic and i would be lying if i said it wasn't frustrating a few times, but in those cases it's just it's a me problem and i need to step back and not let myself be frustrated at something stupid and have understanding that it is difficult sometimes, and i always feel bad when i'm not able to calm my anger and yell at people because it's not the right way to deal with frustration but i think and hope i've become better at it. it is just those tiny nuances that are automatic to some people that, in my experience, is not always something people on the spectrum are as sensitive to and that sometimes lead to misunderstandings and that sucks, but if i am better at clarifying when i can tell that i was misunderstood, it should be better? 
i can see how it can become frustrating yes 
and its so maddening (for me atleast) because i literally can not do anything about it, my brain will not function that way, i cant pick up on the cues automatically i have to do it manually and with pattern recognition 

however i just ask right out if i misunderstood, so i dont think i get into those situations where everyone gets frustrated a lot? 
i ask when im confused, i ask people to be patient, i have no problem with admitting that i think i have misunderstood something 

but also i dont feel like this is just an autistic thing either 
honestly im surprised how many people say they are autistic and I feel bad in way that i really have no clue how so many people are autistic
They seem just fine or lot of them who ive seen, don't need to be autistic not to get joke or something else always 
Misunderstanding etc are normal and everyone has them so im just confused

maybe its because i fear what if im autistic in some way and to be it would be big thing as in would be ashamed of it even as it sounds kinda rude to say that way
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Date: 18-12-2022 16:49
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Rui wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Rui wrote:
can i have the red unique hair you won as a hostage im poor
no, sorry
i love how you’re saying sorry for that. you’re very kind
no it's just common decency imo
Date: 18-12-2022 16:49
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Nesta wrote:
floge wrote:
that whole debate is so stupid, if theyre so mad about people not wanting to use tonetags they can go over to everskies
where are they mad about that
one person said alot of comments like its ableism and we have no emphaty  and hoping we never meet or interract with a disabled person. i will say they were mad
Date: 18-12-2022 16:49
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floge wrote:
Nesta wrote:
floge wrote:
that whole debate is so stupid, if theyre so mad about people not wanting to use tonetags they can go over to everskies
where are they mad about that
one person said alot of comments like its ableism and we have no emphaty  and hoping we never meet or interract with a disabled person. i will say they were mad
ah, I try to stay out of that. I read topic and I leave topic. 
Date: 18-12-2022 16:50
Ashnikko
Minister of Pop



Ashnikko wrote:
floge wrote:
Nesta wrote:
floge wrote:
that whole debate is so stupid, if theyre so mad about people not wanting to use tonetags they can go over to everskies
where are they mad about that
one person said alot of comments like its ableism and we have no emphaty  and hoping we never meet or interract with a disabled person. i will say they were mad
idk the tonetag thing at all like why is it big thing if people don't want to use them
Like unless you directly ask for me to use them when we are in 1 on 1 convo then yeah i get it but otherwise no
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Date: 18-12-2022 16:51
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Babel wrote:
why does this website keep going down. I finally got my layout and coding for my club, I just want to be stuck up and write some rules please
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Date: 18-12-2022 16:51
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DeIure wrote:
why does this website keep going down. I finally got my layout and coding for my club, I just want to be stuck up and write some rules please
mood
Date: 18-12-2022 16:52
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Living Legend



lain wrote:
wug wrote:
Mymble wrote:
wug wrote:
i think most people i interact with online are autistic and i would be lying if i said it wasn't frustrating a few times, but in those cases it's just it's a me problem and i need to step back and not let myself be frustrated at something stupid and have understanding that it is difficult sometimes, and i always feel bad when i'm not able to calm my anger and yell at people because it's not the right way to deal with frustration but i think and hope i've become better at it. it is just those tiny nuances that are automatic to some people that, in my experience, is not always something people on the spectrum are as sensitive to and that sometimes lead to misunderstandings and that sucks, but if i am better at clarifying when i can tell that i was misunderstood, it should be better? 
i can see how it can become frustrating yes 
and its so maddening (for me atleast) because i literally can not do anything about it, my brain will not function that way, i cant pick up on the cues automatically i have to do it manually and with pattern recognition 

however i just ask right out if i misunderstood, so i dont think i get into those situations where everyone gets frustrated a lot? 
i ask when im confused, i ask people to be patient, i have no problem with admitting that i think i have misunderstood something 

but also i dont feel like this is just an autistic thing either 
yeah i've heard people explain how they do things that for me is as basic as breathing and i can understand that it's not a great way of experiencing things and that it is exhausting. 

people should be better at being patient, but i think it's difficult for a lot of people to understand how much processing is involved in language and communication. it is super detailed and extremely complicated, so having to be focused on it rather than do it "naturally" is a mental work out session. 

i feel like the difference is that for autistic people it's often like it has to be consciously done at all times and at some point you reach the maximum of doing that like it's too much and then it gets bad, while others seemingly misinterpret things on purpose just to be cunts or read the absolute worst meaning into something because they are gremlins. of course confusion can occur at all times, i just think it's how you approach it that matters really. 
it is extremely exhausting yes (for me atleast, all im talking about now is my personal experience, not talking on behalf of other autistic people) and that is the reason why im almost never social, i dont go outside because its just not worth it often 

it is yes

yes, i can see how its easy to "boil over" when it comes to miscommunication. i've had people blow up in my face for this reason, and ive gotten hurtful comments that slips out when people get frustrated 
and it makes me just not want to talk. cause i dont do it on purpose, and i think some people forgets that 
ironically im better at online communication than irl because i dont see anyones faces and can just read out right what people are saying 

i also used to go to an autism group, and it was really sad to hear that a lot of the other members in the group didnt dare to ask people to clarify because of situations in the past where people get angry 
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Date: 18-12-2022 16:53
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Infinitevoid wrote:
floge wrote:
Nesta wrote:
where are they mad about that
one person said alot of comments like its ableism and we have no emphaty  and hoping we never meet or interract with a disabled person. i will say they were mad
idk the tonetag thing at all like why is it big thing if people don't want to use them
Like unless you directly ask for me to use them when we are in 1 on 1 convo then yeah i get it but otherwise no
this, ofc i would respectfully do it in a conversation 1 to 1 if it really was necessary but generally writing that way would just be exhausting for me
Date: 18-12-2022 16:53
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DeIure wrote:
why does this website keep going down. I finally got my layout and coding for my club, I just want to be stuck up and write some rules please
ye it sucks, i was so invested in the debate over tone tags
Date: 18-12-2022 16:54
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