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Kofod wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
I don't want to sound bad and say that a therapist is bad but it is nothing for me tbh. I know they help many people but after done it against my will I just feel like I'm better without it 
It all depends on the problem you've got and the therapist really 
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Date: 05-12-2018 17:59
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Kofod wrote:
Petite wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Petite wrote:
I've never met her before, so I hope she's nice lol
Yes me too. She might be good for you 
Hopefully. It's only like an introduction session, but I feel good about it. I've needed it for years. And hopefully she works for me so I can continue with her after christmas. 
I certainly hope so. I wish you the best! 
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Date: 05-12-2018 17:59
Apterygidae
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Apterygidae wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
I don't want to sound bad and say that a therapist is bad but it is nothing for me tbh. I know they help many people but after done it against my will I just feel like I'm better without it 
It all depends on the problem you've got and the therapist really 
I guess so but I think it is also about who you are as a person. I like to write down my thoughts more then talk with someone about it 
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:01
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Kofod wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
I don't want to sound bad and say that a therapist is bad but it is nothing for me tbh. I know they help many people but after done it against my will I just feel like I'm better without it 
It all depends on the problem you've got and the therapist really 
I guess so but I think it is also about who you are as a person. I like to write down my thoughts more then talk with someone about it 
That can be a therapy on it's own too
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:02
Alexandoria
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Alexandoria wrote:
Wow, look how not christmassy I look
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:03
atencia
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atencia wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
I don't want to sound bad and say that a therapist is bad but it is nothing for me tbh. I know they help many people but after done it against my will I just feel like I'm better without it 
It's not for everyone, and I didn't think it was for me either for years (like I was totally against it). And yeah, I totally understand that you don't like the thought of therapy if you had to do it against your will in the part. I tried and had a few sessions about four years ago, and I didn't like the therapist and things just didn't work out, so I just stopped and decided to fix things myself. It worked for a while, but this year has just been a mess and I actually can see now that what I'm doing is not working and I need help to be able to continue with like life I guess. 
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:04
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Apterygidae wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Alfie wrote:
It all depends on the problem you've got and the therapist really 
I guess so but I think it is also about who you are as a person. I like to write down my thoughts more then talk with someone about it 
That can be a therapy on it's own too
True true 
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:04
atencia
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atencia wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Petite wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Yes me too. She might be good for you 
Hopefully. It's only like an introduction session, but I feel good about it. I've needed it for years. And hopefully she works for me so I can continue with her after christmas. 
I certainly hope so. I wish you the best! 
Thank you 
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:04
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Kofod wrote:
Alexandoria wrote:
Wow, look how not christmassy I look
You tried
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:05
atencia
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atencia wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
I don't want to sound bad and say that a therapist is bad but it is nothing for me tbh. I know they help many people but after done it against my will I just feel like I'm better without it 
It all depends on the problem you've got and the therapist really 
I guess so but I think it is also about who you are as a person. I like to write down my thoughts more then talk with someone about it 
Totally. Different things works for different people. 
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:06
Alexandoria
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Alexandoria wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Alexandoria wrote:
Wow, look how not christmassy I look
You tried

There was an attempt indeed 
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:06
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atencia wrote:
Alexandoria wrote:
Wow, look how not christmassy I look
I didn't recognize you at first, lol
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:06
Alexandoria
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Alexandoria wrote:
Petite wrote:
Alexandoria wrote:
Wow, look how not christmassy I look
I didn't recognize you at first, lol
I change drastically sometimes lmao 
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:10
Apterygidae
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Apterygidae wrote:
Petite wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
I don't want to sound bad and say that a therapist is bad but it is nothing for me tbh. I know they help many people but after done it against my will I just feel like I'm better without it 
It's not for everyone, and I didn't think it was for me either for years (like I was totally against it). And yeah, I totally understand that you don't like the thought of therapy if you had to do it against your will in the part. I tried and had a few sessions about four years ago, and I didn't like the therapist and things just didn't work out, so I just stopped and decided to fix things myself. It worked for a while, but this year has just been a mess and I actually can see now that what I'm doing is not working and I need help to be able to continue with like life I guess. 
Yes, and it is really good that you get a new therapist. I can see how it helps people but to me, it didn't help. Sure I got to speak out about stuff but I never felt confident enough to fully trust my therapist mostly because I didn't want her to tell my mom which she said she won't but still I didn't trust that. My mom always wanted us to go together which I didn't want and luckily that never happened. It was also sometimes very awkward when I talked to her because she was just sitting there and staring at me whenever I stopped to talk so it was like really silent and awkward. I'm sure it will help you but as I said it is nothing for me. 
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Date: 05-12-2018 18:11
atencia
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atencia wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Petite wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
I don't want to sound bad and say that a therapist is bad but it is nothing for me tbh. I know they help many people but after done it against my will I just feel like I'm better without it 
It's not for everyone, and I didn't think it was for me either for years (like I was totally against it). And yeah, I totally understand that you don't like the thought of therapy if you had to do it against your will in the part. I tried and had a few sessions about four years ago, and I didn't like the therapist and things just didn't work out, so I just stopped and decided to fix things myself. It worked for a while, but this year has just been a mess and I actually can see now that what I'm doing is not working and I need help to be able to continue with like life I guess. 
Yes, and it is really good that you get a new therapist. I can see how it helps people but to me, it didn't help. Sure I got to speak out about stuff but I never felt confident enough to fully trust my therapist mostly because I didn't want her to tell my mom which she said she won't but still I didn't trust that. My mom always wanted us to go together which I didn't want and luckily that never happened. It was also sometimes very awkward when I talked to her because she was just sitting there and staring at me whenever I stopped to talk so it was like really silent and awkward. I'm sure it will help you but as I said it is nothing for me. 
That was the reason I stopped four years ago... just so awkward. And yeah, it was for me as for you, I didn't get anything out of it last time I tried, but I just have to give it one more chance.

I see why it was hard and uncomfortable for you if you weren't able to fully trust her. Trust plays a big part in being able to open up. Hope you're alright now tho, and have found what works for you <3
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:27
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