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Kofod wrote:
I urge orange juice but have none
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:42
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atencia wrote:
Alfie wrote:
I urge orange juice but have none
sad
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:43
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atencia wrote:
Petite wrote:
Alfie wrote:
I urge orange juice but have none
sad
I would have given you some, but I don't have any either D:
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:44
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Kofod wrote:
Petite wrote:
Alfie wrote:
I urge orange juice but have none
sad
Yes I know ):
I might buy something tomorrow when I'm going down town anyways. I was going to go down town today, but since I was sent home early I didn't 
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:44
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Apterygidae wrote:
Petite wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Petite wrote:
It's not for everyone, and I didn't think it was for me either for years (like I was totally against it). And yeah, I totally understand that you don't like the thought of therapy if you had to do it against your will in the part. I tried and had a few sessions about four years ago, and I didn't like the therapist and things just didn't work out, so I just stopped and decided to fix things myself. It worked for a while, but this year has just been a mess and I actually can see now that what I'm doing is not working and I need help to be able to continue with like life I guess. 
Yes, and it is really good that you get a new therapist. I can see how it helps people but to me, it didn't help. Sure I got to speak out about stuff but I never felt confident enough to fully trust my therapist mostly because I didn't want her to tell my mom which she said she won't but still I didn't trust that. My mom always wanted us to go together which I didn't want and luckily that never happened. It was also sometimes very awkward when I talked to her because she was just sitting there and staring at me whenever I stopped to talk so it was like really silent and awkward. I'm sure it will help you but as I said it is nothing for me. 
That was the reason I stopped four years ago... just so awkward. And yeah, it was for me as for you, I didn't get anything out of it last time I tried, but I just have to give it one more chance.

I see why it was hard and uncomfortable for you if you weren't able to fully trust her. Trust plays a big part in being able to open up. Hope you're alright now tho, and have found what works for you <3
Yeah, I mean I still struggle but I can handle most of it even if I sometimes wish that my best friend was in Sweden now because I fully trust her and there was stuff I couldn't take up with the therapist which my best friend only know. She lives in New Zealand now so it is hard to reach her and my other best friend just stopped to talk with me so right now I don't have any to talk to when it gets really hard, but I still feel like I don't want to go to a therapist 
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Kofod wrote:
Petite wrote:
Petite wrote:
Alfie wrote:
I urge orange juice but have none
sad
I would have given you some, but I don't have any either D:
We are some pathetic folks for not having orange juice o:
Pathetic sounds so harsh but I didn't remember the right word I wanted to use eow
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:45
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atencia wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Petite wrote:
Alfie wrote:
I urge orange juice but have none
sad
Yes I know ):
I might buy something tomorrow when I'm going down town anyways. I was going to go down town today, but since I was sent home early I didn't 
D:
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:46
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atencia wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Petite wrote:
Petite wrote:
sad
I would have given you some, but I don't have any either D:
We are some pathetic folks for not having orange juice o:
Pathetic sounds so harsh but I didn't remember the right word I wanted to use eow
Yes, what's wrong with us?
I haven't had it for weeks now cause I have to walk to the supermarket and I'm always like noo it's too heavy, lol

I don't even know what word you're looking for lol
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:47
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Kofod wrote:
Petite wrote:
Alfie wrote:
Petite wrote:
I would have given you some, but I don't have any either D:
We are some pathetic folks for not having orange juice o:
Pathetic sounds so harsh but I didn't remember the right word I wanted to use eow
Yes, what's wrong with us?
I haven't had it for weeks now cause I have to walk to the supermarket and I'm always like noo it's too heavy, lol

I don't even know what word you're looking for lol
I drank it all a while ago and haven't gotten around to get more. 

Neither do I uhoh
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:48
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atencia wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Petite wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Yes, and it is really good that you get a new therapist. I can see how it helps people but to me, it didn't help. Sure I got to speak out about stuff but I never felt confident enough to fully trust my therapist mostly because I didn't want her to tell my mom which she said she won't but still I didn't trust that. My mom always wanted us to go together which I didn't want and luckily that never happened. It was also sometimes very awkward when I talked to her because she was just sitting there and staring at me whenever I stopped to talk so it was like really silent and awkward. I'm sure it will help you but as I said it is nothing for me. 
That was the reason I stopped four years ago... just so awkward. And yeah, it was for me as for you, I didn't get anything out of it last time I tried, but I just have to give it one more chance.

I see why it was hard and uncomfortable for you if you weren't able to fully trust her. Trust plays a big part in being able to open up. Hope you're alright now tho, and have found what works for you <3
Yeah, I mean I still struggle but I can handle most of it even if I sometimes wish that my best friend was in Sweden now because I fully trust her and there was stuff I could take up with the therapist which my best friend only know. She lives in New Zealand now so it is hard to reach her and my other best friend just stopped to talk with me so right now I don't have any to talk to when it gets really hard, but I still feel like I don't want to go to a therapist 
It's good that you manage to handle most of it yourself but it must be hard to not have any friend around you, cause, as I've learned the past few months, friends are so important and can be crucial in your well being even if you don't see it yourself. Some even trust friends more than family, and those long friend talks about life are the best <3 Aren't you able to call or text, or even email, your friend in New Zealand? 
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Date: 05-12-2018 19:54
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Apterygidae wrote:
Petite wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Petite wrote:
That was the reason I stopped four years ago... just so awkward. And yeah, it was for me as for you, I didn't get anything out of it last time I tried, but I just have to give it one more chance.

I see why it was hard and uncomfortable for you if you weren't able to fully trust her. Trust plays a big part in being able to open up. Hope you're alright now tho, and have found what works for you <3
Yeah, I mean I still struggle but I can handle most of it even if I sometimes wish that my best friend was in Sweden now because I fully trust her and there was stuff I could take up with the therapist which my best friend only know. She lives in New Zealand now so it is hard to reach her and my other best friend just stopped to talk with me so right now I don't have any to talk to when it gets really hard, but I still feel like I don't want to go to a therapist 
It's good that you manage to handle most of it yourself but it must be hard to not have any friend around you, cause, as I've learned the past few months, friends are so important and can be crucial in your well being even if you don't see it yourself. Some even trust friends more than family, and those long friend talks about life are the best <3 Aren't you able to call or text, or even email, your friend in New Zealand? 
That's true and I do have some other friends but most of them are busy with life and I'm kind of tired to always be the one who has to take up the contact if I want to see them. I don't know if it is just me but if someone else like sends you a text with like ''Hi, do you want to meet up and hang'' it shows that they care about you and want to be with you. My best friend who just stopped to text me one day was like that which made me happy because that showed that he actually cared and wanted to talk with me, but I guess we all a different so they can care but are maybe shy or busy idk. Sadly I can't or when I go to sleep she wakes up and she works as a nanny so the only time I can talk with her is on weekends which can be hard. 
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Date: 05-12-2018 20:02
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atencia wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Petite wrote:
Apterygidae wrote:
Yeah, I mean I still struggle but I can handle most of it even if I sometimes wish that my best friend was in Sweden now because I fully trust her and there was stuff I could take up with the therapist which my best friend only know. She lives in New Zealand now so it is hard to reach her and my other best friend just stopped to talk with me so right now I don't have any to talk to when it gets really hard, but I still feel like I don't want to go to a therapist 
It's good that you manage to handle most of it yourself but it must be hard to not have any friend around you, cause, as I've learned the past few months, friends are so important and can be crucial in your well being even if you don't see it yourself. Some even trust friends more than family, and those long friend talks about life are the best <3 Aren't you able to call or text, or even email, your friend in New Zealand? 
That's true and I do have some other friends but most of them are busy with life and I'm kind of tired to always be the one who has to take up the contact if I want to see them. I don't know if it is just me but if someone else like sends you a text with like ''Hi, do you want to meet up and hang'' it shows that they care about you and want to be with you. My best friend who just stopped to text me one day was like that which made me happy because that showed that he actually cared and wanted to talk with me, but I guess we all a different so they can care but are maybe shy or busy idk. Sadly I can't or when I go to sleep she wakes up and she works as a nanny so the only time I can talk with her is on weekends which can be hard. 
It's unfortunate, but that's often what happens. People get busy with their lives and then everyone really need to make an effort to make friendships last. It's not just you, I totally agree. But it kind of needs to go both ways tho, and then I also now that I'm not the best at taking up the contact and therefore may be the reason friends kind of drift away from me and find others to hang out with... Snapchat is the thing, haha! Like that's how I keep in contact with my friends overseas, cause we just snap about random things that happens during the day, small thoughts, deeper thoughts, just everything really. Though I, as you, wish I could talk to them properly, and that's the reason I'm trying out the therapist thing. Really, the only proper chats I have are on vp (like this one right now), and I feel like I should talk to someone irl as well.
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Date: 05-12-2018 20:18
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Kofod wrote:
I wonder if my mom will be getting home anytime soon
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Date: 05-12-2018 20:24
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atencia wrote:
Alfie wrote:
I wonder if my mom will be getting home anytime soon
Anything in specific you're gonna do when she gets home? 
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Date: 05-12-2018 20:36
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Kofod wrote:
Petite wrote:
Alfie wrote:
I wonder if my mom will be getting home anytime soon
Anything in specific you're gonna do when she gets home? 
No not at all
Besides actually talk to someone
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Date: 05-12-2018 20:40
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