Abby wrote:devilcake wrote:Abby wrote:
can I just share that I wanted to eat dinner before, but right as I sat down I was told a curator from court decided to visit us?
yeah
that happened
Huh
why
court curators visit here on family matters
so usually a family gets a divorce, broken families, etc.
however, they also visit when a couple wanna get married.
so she visited us and asked us some stuff about how we met and how things were, do we had enough space to live with the fiance's parents, and just general stuff for the court to decide if we could get married
she said we do seem like a good couple, and how she was happy to sit down and write good things this visit because he entire day consisted of bad visits and how it was lighter
and that we'd make beautiful kids.... smh
I just love how my mil was encouraging the curator lady that ye we will, but when she left she joked with me that she couldn't just say "nah how could I tell her you don't want them?" in the sense that she would not want to complicate stuff for us,
and to be acknowledged by her like that and for her to be respectful of my choice (not realllyyy choice but sorta) to not have kids.... happy tears
This is wild the wildest thing I heard they make home visits before you marry 😭😭😭 at least it ended as a heartwarming tale wow