Abby wrote:Aphrodite wrote:fujiwara wrote:
i was thinking this was a little bit fair if she is genuinley busy but i think a response like that is uncalled for and a bit guilt tripping, maybe... ppl can show their truer colours when u need support in rough times
I totally get that people get busy at times and thats fine, i dont need to be with my friends all the time but maybe text me like once a few weeks so ask how im doing especially when ive expressed that im kinda going through something right now and i would just need someone to listen especially my best friend who ive known for ages. And she’s right - i havent asked her how she’s doing either but ive still made more effort to try to meet up with her but somehow it just falls short every time. Its so frustrating.
idk, I am getting married and I still have.. no, I CHOSE to have time for other people, like what the fuck
idk how close you were or if she treated you like that before but anyone that does that is not a good nor real friend
It really baffles me that she doesnt even seem to try to make time for me? Like you said, its a choice to stay in touch with your friends during busy times even if it takes more effort than usual. She also said that her other friends havent had an issue with her being busy but idk somehow it just doesnt feel nice to get compared to her other friends. I dont have a support system within my family, i live with my mom and thats the whole entirety of my family and i wish she could see that i may need friends a little bit more than her other friends during hard times. Its just ugh so complicated. But at the same time i would be happy if she just left me a simple message from time to time; how are you doing today? How are you coping with your ocd? Im not asking for much.