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atencia wrote:
Hm, I feel you. I don't really know what to say as I've only followed this same path all my life and haven't gone after any opportunities or tried new things either. Literally, applying for NT was me getting out of my comfort zone and trying something new. Your best option is probably to take baby steps and just start with, as you said, just getting a simple job and then take things as they come after that. And who knows, maybe you'll even really enjoy that simple job and end up staying there for years, or you'll get an opportunity from having that job that will completely change you life.
Then you're lucky, but I actually bet getting a license would get you to go out more often since you then have the freedom to go whenever and wherever you want.
Gravitation wrote:
Yeah, that's a big problem actually and it doesn't matter if it's something I truly want to do, because I just can't get to it. I feel like I'm stuck in a loop doing the same things day in and day out.
Thankfully I have a bus to town every half hour and my dad can give me a ride sometimes, but it would be so nice to be able to drive by myself whenever I want. Maybe that would make me leave the house more.
That's great!Petite wrote:
You have to dare to take those risks if you're choosing that path, which is scary, but it's definitely possible nowadays. But getting an education and a job thereafter is definitely a safer option, if that's what you want. That's true, but unfortunately life kind of requires you to take initiative and actually go for what you want. But I totally understand you, cause I think that's hard myself, which is why I haven't had more projects and jobs yet either. Hm, I see, living in the middle of nowhere I kind of had to get it as quickly as possible to be able to be "free" and not reliant on my parents in a way, which I'm thankful for now. But if you just decide on it now and set a goal to like get your license within the summer or something, that's definitely possible, but then again you have to take that initiative.
If there is a point in the future where I'm less anxious, I will probably try it out.Gravitation wrote:
Got you!
How was that acting job? I've always liked to like play characters and stuff (my best childhood friend and I made tons "movies" together when we were kids), so maybe I want to try that out in the future if I get the chance.
I'm just afraid nothing will happen if I just "let life happen", because things can't happen if I don't even leave the house and don't take any risks. It's so hard to have to take initiative and actually do something, rather than just having someone tell me what to do. One of the reasons I still don't have my drivers license probably. Because it's not mandatory, I never do it. I have been driving a couple of times since the beginning of fall this year. I'll be 21 next year.
It was just being in the background and stuff, so I didn't have a character or any lines or anything, but I mean you can still see me on NRK (the like main Norwegian TV channel) so that's kind of fun, haha! But I'll definitely try auditioning for another acting job again, cause it was fun. And yeah, that's something you could try out?Got you!
How was that acting job? I've always liked to like play characters and stuff (my best childhood friend and I made tons "movies" together when we were kids), so maybe I want to try that out in the future if I get the chance.
I'm just afraid nothing will happen if I just "let life happen", because things can't happen if I don't even leave the house and don't take any risks. It's so hard to have to take initiative and actually do something, rather than just having someone tell me what to do. One of the reasons I still don't have my drivers license probably. Because it's not mandatory, I never do it. I have been driving a couple of times since the beginning of fall this year. I'll be 21 next year.
You have to dare to take those risks if you're choosing that path, which is scary, but it's definitely possible nowadays. But getting an education and a job thereafter is definitely a safer option, if that's what you want. That's true, but unfortunately life kind of requires you to take initiative and actually go for what you want. But I totally understand you, cause I think that's hard myself, which is why I haven't had more projects and jobs yet either. Hm, I see, living in the middle of nowhere I kind of had to get it as quickly as possible to be able to be "free" and not reliant on my parents in a way, which I'm thankful for now. But if you just decide on it now and set a goal to like get your license within the summer or something, that's definitely possible, but then again you have to take that initiative.
Yeah, that's a big problem actually and it doesn't matter if it's something I truly want to do, because I just can't get to it. I feel like I'm stuck in a loop doing the same things day in and day out.
Thankfully I have a bus to town every half hour and my dad can give me a ride sometimes, but it would be so nice to be able to drive by myself whenever I want. Maybe that would make me leave the house more.
Hm, I feel you. I don't really know what to say as I've only followed this same path all my life and haven't gone after any opportunities or tried new things either. Literally, applying for NT was me getting out of my comfort zone and trying something new. Your best option is probably to take baby steps and just start with, as you said, just getting a simple job and then take things as they come after that. And who knows, maybe you'll even really enjoy that simple job and end up staying there for years, or you'll get an opportunity from having that job that will completely change you life.
Then you're lucky, but I actually bet getting a license would get you to go out more often since you then have the freedom to go whenever and wherever you want.
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