Arthema wrote:science wrote:Arthema wrote:That sounds horrible and hearing that makes me think I made the right choice ditching moving to Germany and settling there

what other places you thought of? maybe a place with an easy to learn language or a language that is similar to those you already speak?
no you 100% did you really did
idk i was thinking abt going to portugal and stay with my sister for a while, she seems to have her shit together despite how bummy the country is, or i would go to britain since u know anglophone and it's not america and also not fucking australia/nz with their gargantuous spiders, or even something like norway or sweden but that would make me go all the way back to square one in terms of the language and i don't know how accomodating they are to foreigners, i've heard since 2015 most european countries have progressively gotten less accomodating but idk
hmm I feel like even in "bummy" countries you can have and make a comfortable life? a lot of my friends bashed me for moving to Poland for that exact reason but my life has been good? like I am not rich or anything but I am comfortable, I got all that I need and I'd say a bit more than that, got a lil business and my husband is earning more than the avrg in the country

meanwhile all those friends that laughed at me struggle so 🤷🏻♀️
Yeah US is a nightmare to even get into, just to travel at times, Australia and nz are indeed nightmare fuel inducing with those creatures they got there, UK could work? I'd say the Scandinavian countries you can easily learn the language slowly and be able to use English and comfortably live there as you progress with the language
despite how accommodating they are... there will be racists everywhere really, I learned that if you just try to respect the society you live in, learn their language and be mindful, people will either have a very positive reaction to you or they'd be asking why u studying that language lmao, which I'd say is also not bad,
me and husband thinking if he'd get an offer to work in the Scandinavian countries as some of his comrades did, we might as well move there
Let me tell you, Poland and Polish people HATE Russians and now Ukrainians but I have gotten only compliments and nice words from people, I'd say at least to my face but now I can eavesdrop on convos in polish hehehe and so far nothing bad
I suggest to do some research, especially in terms of what YOU'd like
honestly i dont even wanna be rich or sum like seriously i wanna be at PEACE fr... one of my main concerns is healthcare cus i have endless ailments to deal with but yeah.. but hello u got lucky u have a provider husband?! i can't bag that so i'm gonna have to make due with my shitty skillset smh... also u have a business?! since when?! is it the tutoring/teacher stuff...