Arthema wrote:hmm I feel like even in "bummy" countries you can have and make a comfortable life? a lot of my friends bashed me for moving to Poland for that exact reason but my life has been good? like I am not rich or anything but I am comfortable, I got all that I need and I'd say a bit more than that, got a lil business and my husband is earning more than the avrg in the country

meanwhile all those friends that laughed at me struggle so 🤷🏻♀️
Yeah US is a nightmare to even get into, just to travel at times, Australia and nz are indeed nightmare fuel inducing with those creatures they got there, UK could work? I'd say the Scandinavian countries you can easily learn the language slowly and be able to use English and comfortably live there as you progress with the language
despite how accommodating they are... there will be racists everywhere really, I learned that if you just try to respect the society you live in, learn their language and be mindful, people will either have a very positive reaction to you or they'd be asking why u studying that language lmao, which I'd say is also not bad,
me and husband thinking if he'd get an offer to work in the Scandinavian countries as some of his comrades did, we might as well move there
Let me tell you, Poland and Polish people HATE Russians and now Ukrainians but I have gotten only compliments and nice words from people, I'd say at least to my face but now I can eavesdrop on convos in polish hehehe and so far nothing bad
I suggest to do some research, especially in terms of what YOU'd like
honestly i dont even wanna be rich or sum like seriously i wanna be at PEACE fr... one of my main concerns is healthcare cus i have endless ailments to deal with but yeah.. but hello u got lucky u have a provider husband?! i can't bag that so i'm gonna have to make due with my shitty skillset smh... also u have a business?! since when?! is it the tutoring/teacher stuff...
yeah i'm considering uk, portugal or scandinavia.. oh yes i'm aware of the downsides, i just feared that i wouldn't have enough time to acccomodate as a foreigner i suppose? my sister for example went to denmark in 2014 and according to her there were a LOT more accomodations, as in international education, etc etc, compared to now, so i just assumed that it's probably the case for most scandinavian countries now..