devilcake wrote:Solar wrote:
i think bras can kind of be fine, completely fine if theres a see through top over it but just not very fashionable when wearing just a bra imo, wearing a sports bra would be more normal yaknow? like bras are often made and/or bought to be pretty in the bedroom as well, so it CAN serve for a sexual purpose which makes it not super appropriate in a public setting
i also think no shirt no bra (for any gender) is not appropriate in a store
i think bikini in a store in not appropriate just bc its the same shape as lingerie and has been removed out of its usual context (swimming / the beach) and so it has risk of becoming sexual again
i think when swimming / on the beach no bra should be appropriate for everyone
ig i dont rly see the seggsual part of like bikinis n stuff like ik it can be but it also just doesnt connect the same way in my head in liike a grocery store its just someone going to grab smth from the store while they were out doin smth in a swimsuit context or heat ig... i was gonna say lingerie would feel off but then again some like acceptable as regular clothes type bralettes n stuff look like lingerie but if paired with like jeans its just a like a cute shirt so maybe it depends on what its paired with
but big yes on beach thing very based
i so get wht ur saying n i agree n definitely when paired w pants but at the same time there are a lot of not woke boomers or horndogs out there who do view it as seggsual