Babel wrote:
am i an asshole bc I'm angry at my boyfriend for him reconsidering if we can travel the last weekend of april or the first of may. We've talked about this for the past two weeks, with me sending specific links and dates for hotels + plane ticket.
He's reconsidering bc he has a concert the 16th and one of his bandmates have just booked a vacation, where they travel the 10th (idk when he comes home) but my bf wants to practice before the concert, and if he doesn't have the two weekends before his bandmate travels off, they probably won't do as good of a concert as they could.
I asked for concert days to choose the most optimal weekend to go before that, which is why I've not even considered the 10th, because it was obvious to me that they would practice that weekend. If we book the same weekend the airplane tickets cost 3x the price.
My boyfriend think we should postpone (which means we'll hit august before getting a good time again), I think we should choose one of the weekends already chosen, because his bandmate already fucked them over by going on vacation 6 days before the concert they have.