nesta wrote:kruspersille wrote:
who do u live with now
FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK (i am in a shitty sleepy and weird mood btw nothing personal)
Since dad gave me and sis the neigbooring house, she was supposed to be kicked out this fall. so mom planned to sell her house for around that date so she could stay with us a month or so until she got to move into her new place. i was like okay i probably should stay with sis, she can't live in
our house alone for a year. it feels weird. WELL SURPRISE. 1st of august comes around, we begin rennovations that sis has thought NOTHING ABOUT Prior --- ALL OF DAD AND SIS INTELL ABOUT THE CONDITION OF THE HOUSE WAS SHITTY. I worked my ass of doing ALL the planning for a month to get an overview, PAINT, PAINT, PAINT, BUY STUFF TO PAINT, ASK PEOPLE TO HELP US. so i kinda moved in and out of 3 places at ONCE (at moms, into me and my siblings place, and also partially out of my room at dads) and SIS DID LITERALLY NOTHING. she was going to paint this entire place (her words not mine. that was the divide. i did colors and interior, she painted.) and she painted literally the least of anyone. at the same time, dad got
brokk and couldn't help with much, so then we was 1 person down. Then my sibling, who decided that 1) she had time for soccer training and matches up to 3 times a week while I was living on
sparebluss to get this happening by the time I had to move out... also managed to dislocate her fking knee at soccer practice, ending up at the emergency room, and practically has been out for 3 weeks of doing anything. at the same time, i got the flu for two weeks and everything went to an halt as soon as we moved in bc i was sick. i'd moved in w mom 1st of september, but nothing was really working - the water is still yellow, the shower is not in place. everything was cold af and dark, and i rather felt less optimistic to stay alive for a while there. SOO since I recovered from the flu, I began working on stuff again after work - I got the bookshelf painted and the table thingy beneath the tv just this weekend - and i hung up the curtains yesterday and started to feel like it's becoming cozy AND SIS DECIDED RESTATE THAT SHE HATES ALL MY PLANTS. AND THAT NEARLY EVERYTHING I LIKE IS UGLY. Dad finally got the old renters to do the doors for us that they were supposed to do instead of a depositum thingie, so they are coming on THURSDAY AND I HAVE TO LITERALLY PUT AWAY EVERYTHING IN THE HALLWAY AGAIN.
Anyways, living this close to my father who is always angry and\or hungry and can't talk to people like a normal person is super fun. literally did not escape him to go back. i never wanted to move her bc i knew this was the exact situation i would have to pull myself and everyone through. AND ofc my sis hates everything I do and she has my entire life. she hates me doing yoga bc she finds it cringe, so she makes sure to insult me with feigted confusion. and she hates my plants that i have repeatedly told her is my pride and joy.
THRIVING INDEED
LOVE IT HERE TRULY
i live w my mom
was supposed to be my mom and sibling
mom moves out next month
i started reading this thinking "wow ur dad GAVE you a house???" but it didnt seem all that nice by the end im sorry about that !! seems like uve done heaps which u should be proud of and im sorry your sister is bein a prick about it