Alfie wrote:Cimorene wrote:Alfie wrote:
It was kinda meh, I'm better at ppl when it's through text, because no one can expect a hug or anything like that from it. So there's that (:
I can't, I really can't. I feel so awful everytime I haven't braced myself for a hug and ppl hug me.
It's also easier through text as you have time to think your words over and delete and start over again haha.
Hopefully it'll get better next time?
Oh, that sounds so uncomfortable!
I never really think through what I write anyways. So I don't think too much about that. I guess I'm just bad at handling both emotional and physical at the same time? It's just emotional through text after all.
It really is, I hate it. Epsecially because a lot of my friends are huggers too, some of them have accepted that I don't like hugs so they don't hug me unless I've given consent. But I've got this one friend, who just hugs the life out of me(worse is that he makes this squeaky sound)
Ah okay, yeah, that might be it. On text it's just one element, full contact is much more overwhelming, and you have to be much more 'on'.