Alfie wrote:Cimorene wrote:Alfie wrote:
I never really think through what I write anyways. So I don't think too much about that. I guess I'm just bad at handling both emotional and physical at the same time? It's just emotional through text after all.
It really is, I hate it. Epsecially because a lot of my friends are huggers too, some of them have accepted that I don't like hugs so they don't hug me unless I've given consent. But I've got this one friend, who just hugs the life out of me(worse is that he makes this squeaky sound)
Ah okay, yeah, that might be it. On text it's just one element, full contact is much more overwhelming, and you have to be much more 'on'.
That is good though, good friends! Doesn't he know that you don't really like it?
Yesss exactly. But it's weird, because it's all fine when it's a bunch of people, but when it's just me and another, uugh..
He does know, I tell him all the time. He even criticized that I chose to go to an efterskole, because efterskoler are apparently all about the hugging -.-'
Might be because you don't ahve all the attention on you when you're in a group?