kruspersille wrote:devilcake wrote:kruspersille wrote:
also small rant that i feel i cant rant to my friends abt (not that u arent my friends but the friends in question i guess.......) but its friday so my student bar is open today n we have event today where its a 20 year age limit to get in cause this is the one night per semester where we make mixed drinks n sell alcohol w a higher % n i really wanted to go but i saw none of my uni friends had clicked that they r going on the event so i asked in chat like hey whos going tomorrow!! n NO ONE said that they were going n some ppl were just being super vague like "mayb ill show up later in the evening" and another girl answered to that w "yea same" n i KNOW that theyre at this other girls birthday party today which is not something im mad abt im nto mad i didnt get invited either cause im not that close w her but its just annoyin that they couldnt just say so uknow
so now im just not going
Yes this is stupid and annoying it’s ruder to try to keep it from you than be honest even if you would feel hurt by it you’d be allowed to tell them!!!
n the fact i can see them all hanging on snapmap

i sound like a salty stalker n i swear im not but it just confirmed what i thought from tha start cause i knew their friends birthday was today (altho did not know if she was celebrating today or not) n it would make sense to celebrate today anyway since friday AND the fact that all her friends were being super vague abt whether they could come to bar tonight or not ... -_-
like i get not wanting to upset anyone by talking abt something they r not invited to, some ppl might be upset abt that but i think its more annoying when then DONT say it but then i see them hang on snapmap for instance !!!! argh
Yes honestly this is very like immature high school mindset of them, being an adult is just knowing that you can’t always be apart of every event etcetc and it makes it more difficult for you to plan like at least say you can’t make it ukno no need to tip toe around it smh