Oakwald wrote:Heartbroken wrote:Oakwald wrote:
You definitively should insist that you have to talk with your therapist first and that you want to discuss it with a professional before making a decition.Â
problem is i dont have an appointment again until 5th of november, and i absolutely doubt they'd wait til then when they couldnt even wait for a cooperative meeting that we were ment to have after she comes back
why can't they wait? what is so pressing like?
i don't get it like this shit is supposed to help you right? and they just do this while any professionals can say anything and you practically have no choice? I'd feel extremely comfortable and over-run and powerless in these situations, and I think they should hear exactly how they make you feel tbh. like new opportunities comes, and like you always have the old plan to fall back on, so what if it takes longer?
what would happen if you said no? that you're not comfortable with making these changes and that you want to stay with the old plan where you're able to discuss it with your therapist and such. you def should try to say you want to wait. get it confirmed instead of assuming (even if the chance is high they still say no)
I have no idea dude, they're pissing me off with all of this. boss was like "You have to make a choice for yourself and think abt yourself" and im just thinking clearly fucking not when i've said no so many times and now yall r forcing it on me anyway???