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Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:
I am just throwing our ideas so u just gotta use the ones that u think may be worth a try if there are any

No i appreciate you talkimg to me abt it, i genuinly do. If not id just sit with t until i explode on my own

Good!! It helps me sometimes too. Like u get to run it over again and again but not in ur own vacuum

Mhm! And it’s nice to have someone actually listen and undeestand

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Heartbroken wrote:
Eurgh boss is here making small talk

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Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:
Ive basically been striking since i spone to boss lmao. First i went and just smoked and now ive kicked my feet up and im not doing shit bc im furious

Okay but what exactly happened today
I think I missed something
If u r up for running it down

Well technically not a lot happened today. Not that I didn’t know would happen at least. Boss took me into his office to hear what i decided or whatever so i just said it would have to be here. And he started asking like what day etc and i told him i dont give a single fuck. I mostly communicated in «mhm’s.» or told him i didnt give a shit when he tried it with the «but tou’ll learn sumn» «won’t you need to know this» bullshit. I didnt look at him for the entire meeting. And then at the end he said hed go talk to washery boss or whatever to figure out what day and asked if i wanted to say sumn else and i just said no bc im furious at this whole fucking situation and just wanted to get the fuck out of there. And then he was like «thanks for the talk» as if i rly said anything and as if its actually a conversation and not something forced on me lmao

Okay so Outside view!
- we have to keep in mind that he's also just doing his job
- and that he opened a way to communicate is good!
- saying that you don't care was probably not optimal. Would suggest nxt time just answer the questions as shortly as u can even if u hate it there. A "idk" works too. It's not his fault u r stuck there either and he could be able to help u have a better day there in the long run.
- but this clearly points to the main issue: u hate it there
Which means NAV gotta pull it together and stop making u feel trapped.

But for right now, I think u must focus on calming ur rage tbh so put on ur fave chill music if u can and take some big breaths (8 of them actually take 8 or ill make u a check list) and let's just chat more

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Heartbroken wrote:
Eurgh boss is here making small talk

ASK HIM IF HE COULD TELL YOU MORE ABOUT HOW THE WORK DAY LOOKS

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We need to fill out the blanks so you can't fill them w worst cases

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Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:
Okay but what exactly happened today
I think I missed something
If u r up for running it down

Well technically not a lot happened today. Not that I didn’t know would happen at least. Boss took me into his office to hear what i decided or whatever so i just said it would have to be here. And he started asking like what day etc and i told him i dont give a single fuck. I mostly communicated in «mhm’s.» or told him i didnt give a shit when he tried it with the «but tou’ll learn sumn» «won’t you need to know this» bullshit. I didnt look at him for the entire meeting. And then at the end he said hed go talk to washery boss or whatever to figure out what day and asked if i wanted to say sumn else and i just said no bc im furious at this whole fucking situation and just wanted to get the fuck out of there. And then he was like «thanks for the talk» as if i rly said anything and as if its actually a conversation and not something forced on me lmao

Okay so Outside view!
- we have to keep in mind that he's also just doing his job
- and that he opened a way to communicate is good!
- saying that you don't care was probably not optimal. Would suggest nxt time just answer the questions as shortly as u can even if u hate it there. A "idk" works too. It's not his fault u r stuck there either and he could be able to help u have a better day there in the long run.
- but this clearly points to the main issue: u hate it there
Which means NAV gotta pull it together and stop making u feel trapped.

But for right now, I think u must focus on calming ur rage tbh so put on ur fave chill music if u can and take some big breaths (8 of them actually take 8 or ill make u a check list) and let's just chat more

I know he is yeah, and i know it doesnt seem like it rn lmao but me and him usually have a good tone and i quite like him as a person. I just dont agree with them doing this to me. And i have a hard time not letting my rage be everything i feel due to my personality disorder

i guess i should turn off my emo list then hngnfndm

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Heartbroken list of worries
- I will be miserable no matter what
- I won't be with the people I like (this is work-able in away. they can introduce you to someone or get u a "fast" support person if anything is up. You will feel safer w the people there over time. It took me a while too.)
- I won't see anyone else I like those days (maybe you can make plans to see them any other day, or the day after, so you have something to look forward too. Of you could video chat, like just ask if you can call and just talk w them after ur day there)

If I read it correctly.

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Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:
Eurgh boss is here making small talk

ASK HIM IF HE COULD TELL YOU MORE ABOUT HOW THE WORK DAY LOOKS

Oh he just left.. he doesnt work down there tho, hes boss of mechanic, so unless a machine gors to shit he got nothing to do with what the washery does

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Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:
Well technically not a lot happened today. Not that I didn’t know would happen at least. Boss took me into his office to hear what i decided or whatever so i just said it would have to be here. And he started asking like what day etc and i told him i dont give a single fuck. I mostly communicated in «mhm’s.» or told him i didnt give a shit when he tried it with the «but tou’ll learn sumn» «won’t you need to know this» bullshit. I didnt look at him for the entire meeting. And then at the end he said hed go talk to washery boss or whatever to figure out what day and asked if i wanted to say sumn else and i just said no bc im furious at this whole fucking situation and just wanted to get the fuck out of there. And then he was like «thanks for the talk» as if i rly said anything and as if its actually a conversation and not something forced on me lmao

Okay so Outside view!
- we have to keep in mind that he's also just doing his job
- and that he opened a way to communicate is good!
- saying that you don't care was probably not optimal. Would suggest nxt time just answer the questions as shortly as u can even if u hate it there. A "idk" works too. It's not his fault u r stuck there either and he could be able to help u have a better day there in the long run.
- but this clearly points to the main issue: u hate it there
Which means NAV gotta pull it together and stop making u feel trapped.

But for right now, I think u must focus on calming ur rage tbh so put on ur fave chill music if u can and take some big breaths (8 of them actually take 8 or ill make u a check list) and let's just chat more

I know he is yeah, and i know it doesnt seem like it rn lmao but me and him usually have a good tone and i quite like him as a person. I just dont agree with them doing this to me. And i have a hard time not letting my rage be everything i feel due to my personality disorder

i guess i should turn off my emo list then hngnfndm

Yes I think that when u get help w ur disorder, things may get easier. I rly hope for that for u bc u deserve that. And I def have that in mind.

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Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:
Eurgh boss is here making small talk

ASK HIM IF HE COULD TELL YOU MORE ABOUT HOW THE WORK DAY LOOKS

Oh he just left.. he doesnt work down there tho, hes boss of mechanic, so unless a machine gors to shit he got nothing to do with what the washery does

Can u go after him? Say sorry for just being brunt at the meeting and if he could help you get to the washing boss so you can ask about how a normale day will be?

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Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:
Heartbroken list of worries
- I will be miserable no matter what
- I won't be with the people I like (this is work-able in away. they can introduce you to someone or get u a "fast" support person if anything is up. You will feel safer w the people there over time. It took me a while too.)
- I won't see anyone else I like those days (maybe you can make plans to see them any other day, or the day after, so you have something to look forward too. Of you could video chat, like just ask if you can call and just talk w them after ur day there)

If I read it correctly.

You’re so smart and methodical nesta!!
but yes i think so. And just the whole it’ll be a lot of standing and i have issues with my feet (thats a issue in mechanic too but i have more opprtunity to sit bc its usually not as hectic here.

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Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:
Okay so Outside view!
- we have to keep in mind that he's also just doing his job
- and that he opened a way to communicate is good!
- saying that you don't care was probably not optimal. Would suggest nxt time just answer the questions as shortly as u can even if u hate it there. A "idk" works too. It's not his fault u r stuck there either and he could be able to help u have a better day there in the long run.
- but this clearly points to the main issue: u hate it there
Which means NAV gotta pull it together and stop making u feel trapped.

But for right now, I think u must focus on calming ur rage tbh so put on ur fave chill music if u can and take some big breaths (8 of them actually take 8 or ill make u a check list) and let's just chat more

I know he is yeah, and i know it doesnt seem like it rn lmao but me and him usually have a good tone and i quite like him as a person. I just dont agree with them doing this to me. And i have a hard time not letting my rage be everything i feel due to my personality disorder

i guess i should turn off my emo list then hngnfndm

Yes I think that when u get help w ur disorder, things may get easier. I rly hope for that for u bc u deserve that. And I def have that in mind.

Yesh prolly

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Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:

Heartbroken wrote:

Oakwald wrote:
ASK HIM IF HE COULD TELL YOU MORE ABOUT HOW THE WORK DAY LOOKS

Oh he just left.. he doesnt work down there tho, hes boss of mechanic, so unless a machine gors to shit he got nothing to do with what the washery does

Can u go after him? Say sorry for just being brunt at the meeting and if he could help you get to the washing boss so you can ask about how a normale day will be?

Idk where he went. Its only 20 min left now. And i dont rly feel like apologizing for nothing, i think my anger is justified. I guess ill find out on wednesday

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Heartbroken wrote:
If i dont fucking kermit first lmao

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Heartbroken wrote:
Imma grab another smoke