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devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:
Just wrote to one of the biggest businesses in Denmark asking questions (that I'm required to ask at job) and I got such a sassy answer back about us needing to "know our place and only asking what's relevant and maybe we should reconsider how much we expected from them" and it is honestly very fucking uncomfortable to have to write back to them about the required information.

I know it's not my fault that their own agreements fucking suck (they wrote them themselves) and that they make zero sense, but Jesus Christ. I'm just doing my job and trying to do something we're legally required to do. (Also I have asked this question from smaller companies and none of them blink when I ask, so what the fuck do you mean it's "too much work for them"??)

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you should make a note of who sent the email and send a warning out to your office that they’re a poopoo stink head
at my old job everyone knew which people we regularly emailed who were stinkers

I already had the message with me to a meeting in the morning to talk it out with the rest of my colleagues, because I really didn't know how to handle it.
It sucks when people suck.

Especially because she was so nice to me at a meeting Friday ?

Business people are just evil by default maybe

can you in your next email to her make like a very polite comment that you’ve noted that she has refused to share the info etcetc I feel like people comply more when they remember they’re leaving a paper trail

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devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:
Also you have friends our age who prefers phone calls? Inzayne

You don't? Lucky

Well
i have a total of one irl friend

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Maxwell wrote:

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Or as my brother says when I try calling: "what do you want from me"

LOL me core

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devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:
Or as my brother says when I try calling: "what do you want from me"

You are one of the people making phone calls!!!???

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devilcake wrote:
I only ever call my siblings if we’re like about to meet up n usually I will text like 3 times before resorting to calling unless my mom is also there telling me to do it

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Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:
Cringe
you should make a note of who sent the email and send a warning out to your office that they’re a poopoo stink head
at my old job everyone knew which people we regularly emailed who were stinkers

I already had the message with me to a meeting in the morning to talk it out with the rest of my colleagues, because I really didn't know how to handle it.
It sucks when people suck.

Especially because she was so nice to me at a meeting Friday ?

Business people are just evil by default maybe

can you in your next email to her make like a very polite comment that you’ve noted that she has refused to share the info etcetc I feel like people comply more when they remember they’re leaving a paper trail

It's just so weird? I know she gets paid to care (and well too) but it's the bare minimum I ask for. I sent her the questions yesterday and had an answer back within 20 minutes. The time she spent writing an argument means she'll end up spending even more time total on this thing, compared to just answering and maybe doing it inbetween "important" stuff for the next week. We are very patient.

Maybe that should be my method... I just want to be a little angry with her and tell her why their contract fucking sucks and why they're getting a very big fine if someone with actual power ever decides to look through their shit, but I know it's not professional.

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Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:
Also you have friends our age who prefers phone calls? Inzayne

You don't? Lucky

Well
i have a total of one irl friend

But it's a good friend and that's what counts

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Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:
Or as my brother says when I try calling: "what do you want from me"

You are one of the people making phone calls!!!???

!! Only to my brother because he uses 😜🤪😋🥰😍 emojis and old man talk every time he writes!

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Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:
I only ever call my siblings if we’re like about to meet up n usually I will text like 3 times before resorting to calling unless my mom is also there telling me to do it

This is me with my little sister.

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devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:
I already had the message with me to a meeting in the morning to talk it out with the rest of my colleagues, because I really didn't know how to handle it.
It sucks when people suck.

Especially because she was so nice to me at a meeting Friday ?

Business people are just evil by default maybe

can you in your next email to her make like a very polite comment that you’ve noted that she has refused to share the info etcetc I feel like people comply more when they remember they’re leaving a paper trail

It's just so weird? I know she gets paid to care (and well too) but it's the bare minimum I ask for. I sent her the questions yesterday and had an answer back within 20 minutes. The time she spent writing an argument means she'll end up spending even more time total on this thing, compared to just answering and maybe doing it inbetween "important" stuff for the next week. We are very patient.

Maybe that should be my method... I just want to be a little angry with her and tell her why their contract fucking sucks and why they're getting a very big fine if someone with actual power ever decides to look through their shit, but I know it's not professional.

Honestly some people are just entitled asshats about this kinda stuff sadly, like knows to be polite initially but the moment they feel like you’ve inconvenienced them they’re like um actually I’m the most important person ever

maybe try to match her energy she was a bit angry so you get to be same level of spicy….

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devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:
Or as my brother says when I try calling: "what do you want from me"

You are one of the people making phone calls!!!???

!! Only to my brother because he uses 😜🤪😋🥰😍 emojis and old man talk every time he writes!

This is funny I would text him and then screen shot everything and send here for vp user devilcake to giggle at

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devilcake wrote:
Mom called again

take a hint!!!!!

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devilcake wrote:
I should have just told her I don’t feel like goin this morning now she wants me to call her back… I’m just pretending I’m in class but now I have to call her I guess I’m so annoyed
like I’m sawry I’m lazy I don’t feel like biking today

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Maxwell wrote:

Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:
Or as my brother says when I try calling: "what do you want from me"

You are one of the people making phone calls!!!???

!! Only to my brother because he uses 😜🤪😋🥰😍 emojis and old man talk every time he writes!

I like this my brother just sends me thumbs up

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Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

Babel wrote:

devilcake wrote:
Business people are just evil by default maybe

can you in your next email to her make like a very polite comment that you’ve noted that she has refused to share the info etcetc I feel like people comply more when they remember they’re leaving a paper trail

It's just so weird? I know she gets paid to care (and well too) but it's the bare minimum I ask for. I sent her the questions yesterday and had an answer back within 20 minutes. The time she spent writing an argument means she'll end up spending even more time total on this thing, compared to just answering and maybe doing it inbetween "important" stuff for the next week. We are very patient.

Maybe that should be my method... I just want to be a little angry with her and tell her why their contract fucking sucks and why they're getting a very big fine if someone with actual power ever decides to look through their shit, but I know it's not professional.

Honestly some people are just entitled asshats about this kinda stuff sadly, like knows to be polite initially but the moment they feel like you’ve inconvenienced them they’re like um actually I’m the most important person ever

maybe try to match her energy she was a bit angry so you get to be same level of spicy….

It fucking sucks. When people start acting like this they also get kinda angry and negative feelings and it's just??? Why make my work environment sucky, while also feeling a little sucky about the situation yourself? ESPECIALLY when we talked Friday and I told her we wouldn't need documentation from 4 things we are required to ask about (in principle) because it seemed extreme, where she immediately said this was a nice thing to be told, because it's not what people usually ask. She knows we aren't over the top!

Maybe the next mail... I think I should wait with an escalation until she answers and until I'm physically at work where an adult can supervise what I write.