whydoiexist wrote:hmm wrote:devilcake wrote:
Just like turning friend list exclusivity into a thing tm is kind of childish and gets stinky when it turns into like I won’t even deny you because haha so funny like it ain’t cute, keep your friendliest however small you want but it’s just very mehÂ
thanks for eventually explaining the point
i'm aware of it not being a nice thing to do but i suppose i can't help that i find things like this funny sometimes so i'll own that. from my perspective whether i accept someone or not isn't that big of a deal and doesn't even dictate my opinion of them, so that's why i thought it was fine to joke about it and didn't take her feelings into account. but yeah it's not cute but i didn't mean to be cute anyway
there is a difference between thinking its funny because its not a big deal to you versus keep doing the same thing after someone said over and over that it makes them uncomfortableÂ
joke is when both parties think something is funny, other way its just bullyingÂ
if i remember correctly the person who kept bringing this up at all was you wasn't it.. i don't understand what i keep doing here ever since you got visibly upset about it just recently, because it for sure wasn't mentioning it other than maybe twice in the past?? i didn't say it was a mutual joke, i'm aware it's mean it's just that i personally found it funny