remains wrote:devilcake wrote:remains wrote:
so lessons learned: i need to be more subtle, being direct and honest makes me sound dramatic regardless of it theyre my true feelings or not, i shouldn't be direct or blunt
i shouldn't talk about my own feelings if i dont have the energy to be an emotional support for other people so i need to help other people before asking for help
what else
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i need to notice when i hurt others without them telling me so it's better to be more apologetic overall just in case
i need to be careful so my boundaries dont hurt other people, if self preservation hurts others i should just not do it
i shouldnt write this message because see point 1 i am being dramatic and self serving and entitled
thjis just makes it sound like you should allow everyone to stomp all over u and never express ur feelings this is not good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im unpleasant and uncomfortable and intimidating to be around according to a lot of people so toning myself down is an apology for that
my failures in communication cant seem to be fixed so i will stop, and you dont need to validate me
i just deeply disagree with these things 
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