kruspersille wrote:
can i rant a rant without anyone calling me ungrateful pls ive already been made to feel so bad abt this that ive cried
so my sister gifted me a phone for christmas
without me asking for one
which in itself is super nice n i was super happy n i think its a really nice gesture
however i was gonna buy myself a new one in january anyway - one that is better than the one she gifted me..
which then suddenly complicates this n inconveniences me........... cause now i suddenly seem ungrateful
so i very kindly asked my sister in private instead of in front of everyone if the phone came with a receipt or exchange note(byttelapp?????) to wich she said no (!?)
n this inconveniences me even more
the thing is the phone is both older than what i was gonna buy, smaller gig than what i need, smaller screen than what i would want n wrong color...............................................
n had i not planned to buy a new one myself this wouldnt be an issue cause its still better than the one i have now currently yes but..not better than what i was gonna buy myself...............
n also who buys gift this big n serious on behalf of someone else without consulting them AND NO receipt or byttelapp.........
n when she went to bed i talked w my mom abt this n she got so ??mad at me n disappointed?? like i was being a piece of shit abt it but im not!!!! n she was like "u made ur sister upset. cant u just use the phone for a bit n then buy the other one?" N THAT DEFEATS THE WHOLE PURPOSE??? if i open the box n use phone i cant resell for the amnt i could if unopened n IF she somehow has receipt i cant exchange it now if opened............. so that would be wasting several thousand kr just to use phone for a month to then buy new one myself just to "not upset my sister"....
n i sound like such a bitch i KNOW but the difference is i am not whining "i got a lesser phone than the one i wanted" btu rather "i got a lesser phone than the one i was gonna buy myself in a month anyway" n its just a big fucking inconvenience where IM the bad guy for being honest abt how its an inconvenience...