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Melk wrote:
i've been to two dates with the same person. we have a lot of common interests, and a very similar "background"
we had our second date on friday and we met at 14:00 and we ended up being together until 00:20. first we went to a resturant, then to a cafe and then to a movienight with his roommates and some of their freinds. 
it was fun and we talked a lot
and we both said we had a good time

and we haven's snapped since then, i've sent a few "general" snaps, but he hasn't answered. he isn't the best at snapping an answering, i know that, and we haven't snapped everyday since we met for the first time. and he also have an exam tomorrow. 

do you think it's a chance of him just being too busy, or do you think he might be ignoring me? ahah. 

(and no i haven't had sex with him or something like that, we have just tried to get to know eachother)

Melk wrote:
i've been to two dates with the same person. we have a lot of common interests, and a very similar "background"
we had our second date on friday and we met at 14:00 and we ended up being together until 00:20. first we went to a resturant, then to a cafe and then to a movienight with his roommates and some of their freinds. 
it was fun and we talked a lot
and we both said we had a good time

and we haven's snapped since then, i've sent a few "general" snaps, but he hasn't answered. he isn't the best at snapping an answering, i know that, and we haven't snapped everyday since we met for the first time. and he also have an exam tomorrow. 

do you think it's a chance of him just being too busy, or do you think he might be ignoring me? ahah. 

(and no i haven't had sex with him or something like that, we have just tried to get to know eachother)

Petite wrote:
Hm, it's hard to say, but it's definitely an option that he have been busy. But everyone takes brakes when studying to an exam, so I think it's more likely that he just isn't a person that answers a lot, since you said that you haven't talked every single day previously either. He might just be someone who doesn't snap a lot, so maybe try to don't get too caught up in it and stress about the fact that he hasn't answered. Obviously he not being interested can be an option, but since you were together all day on Friday, ignoring you is kind of a disrespectful way of saying that hi's not interested.... I don't know if this helps at all but

But just give him some time, and most likely it's just stress with exam preparations and he not being the biggest texter 

Petite wrote:
Hm, it's hard to say, but it's definitely an option that he have been busy. But everyone takes brakes when studying to an exam, so I think it's more likely that he just isn't a person that answers a lot, since you said that you haven't talked every single day previously either. He might just be someone who doesn't snap a lot, so maybe try to don't get too caught up in it and stress about the fact that he hasn't answered. Obviously he not being interested can be an option, but since you were together all day on Friday, ignoring you is kind of a disrespectful way of saying that hi's not interested.... I don't know if this helps at all but

But just give him some time, and most likely it's just stress with exam preparations and he not being the biggest texter 

Melk wrote:
ah yes i hope he's just busy ahahah
and if he's not interested i hope he actually tells me

but thank youuu for taking time to help me get some perspective 

Petite wrote:
And I have officially reached 4k forum posts in 4 months 
Guess I'm more social that I thought 

Melk wrote:
woow good job
i haven't even posted 4k (i had a big break tho)

have you only been on vp for 4 months?

Petite wrote:
Thanks

lmao yes, and I'm way too deep into it already

Melk wrote:
ahah i feel you
vp really has an addiction curse over it

what's your name?