Evey wrote:
yeah that's very true, just gotta be myself
thanks for the input, it was nice to just write out the feeling i was having
octocat wrote:
as long as you don't feel forced to respond to his "bro-eyness", just be urself and it'll probably work out just fine!
yeah i kind of mentioned that the vibe has been a bit off and he did get more normal after that so i think it should be ok and he is a good person so if he sees how i react to what he says i think he will act right and it will all turn out well!Evey wrote:
but i'm probably to 80% just overthinking things and the main issue is just me being fragile rn lmfaoooo
that's a valid concern, but maybe you can have a conversation about it beforehand? like if ur both clear that it's a platonic friendship, he doesn't have to over compensate either? idk boys are weird and if you're already feeling fragile it can be tricky to bring up igoctocat wrote:
ooo exciting, no?? where are you going?
yes in a way! i'm excited to get into a warmer climate but i'm also going with an online friend i've never met and i'm a bit scared he will be a bit rough in his way towards me because he has a girlfriend and he really wants it to be platonical (between him and me) and to be sure of that i'm afraid he might be like overly "bro"-ey if you know what i mean? and like i'm fragile in my life rn so i just hope that doesnt clash LOL (like me just feeling worse from not feeling seen by my friend yknow) so yeahooo exciting, no?? where are you going?
but i'm probably to 80% just overthinking things and the main issue is just me being fragile rn lmfaoooo

as long as you don't feel forced to respond to his "bro-eyness", just be urself and it'll probably work out just fine!
yeah that's very true, just gotta be myself
thanks for the input, it was nice to just write out the feeling i was having

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