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xbabyspiderz wrote:

devilcake wrote:

xbabyspiderz wrote:

devilcake wrote:
some people are just dicks, and a lot of neuronormies are weirdos and like not able to see why n how we think even tho they are supposed to be the ones who pick up on that - _ - dont take it to heart, i fink ur rly
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T__T thank u! that tru.

i just got confused bc i suddenly saw that i got unfollowed idk how long since it happened lol. just without explanation since we seemingly got along?? im pretty chill ab it and rejection happens i mean i just am confusion lol. and ppl on the internet can be rude as hell and i dont understand that either U__U

unfollowing to me in genera is super confusing like unless u have huge fite or smth n hate each other noew or one person did something henious but like actively putting thot n effort into unfollowing someone just because is so ????????? to me, i will never understand either.....

i think the ruling of the council (my brain) is that i shud put it away bc will never understand, just take behaviours for face value (if he unfollow, it means dont want to talk to me no more, so not engage even if confused and kinda upset etc etc)

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xbabyspiderz wrote:

Kieren wrote:

xbabyspiderz wrote:

Kieren wrote:
It’s not you it’s them.

did you know narcissists have trouble reading people with autism?
Have you ever met anyone and they were just mean right away? Narcissist.
they’re confused by us so they usually either ghost us or start a fight then ghost us. 🤣
we unintentionally intimidate normies.

T^T i mean yes to rude ppl, idk its just hard to process the why and how when ppl don't have any reason to be so stinkin rude. not that its like super important its mostly just the "ops did i say something mean without meaning to" but ig people that are safe will stick around and communicate (meant in a nice way and not passive aggressively lol)

I get you.
sometime so have to go through the why of it all half a dozen times or more until I can let myself let go and think about something else.

sometimes I say things in a weird way but my people just get me and know what’s up already. 🤣

yes thats true. im a firm believer that not everyone can be friends and that thats oki, just very confusing when ppl suddenly do that with no warning lol

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Sera wrote:

xbabyspiderz wrote:

devilcake wrote:
some people are just dicks, and a lot of neuronormies are weirdos and like not able to see why n how we think even tho they are supposed to be the ones who pick up on that - _ - dont take it to heart, i fink ur rly
cool for having a life size michael meyers cut out

T__T thank u! that tru.

i just got confused bc i suddenly saw that i got unfollowed idk how long since it happened lol. just without explanation since we seemingly got along?? im pretty chill ab it and rejection happens i mean i just am confusion lol. and ppl on the internet can be rude as hell and i dont understand that either U__U

im autistic as well but was it like an internet friend? if you didnt talk/interact for a very, very long time maybe they just wanted to clear out some people? or did they recently tell you they'd like to do stuff with you? idk i need more context

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xbabyspiderz wrote:

Sera wrote:

xbabyspiderz wrote:

devilcake wrote:
some people are just dicks, and a lot of neuronormies are weirdos and like not able to see why n how we think even tho they are supposed to be the ones who pick up on that - _ - dont take it to heart, i fink ur rly
cool for having a life size michael meyers cut out

T__T thank u! that tru.

i just got confused bc i suddenly saw that i got unfollowed idk how long since it happened lol. just without explanation since we seemingly got along?? im pretty chill ab it and rejection happens i mean i just am confusion lol. and ppl on the internet can be rude as hell and i dont understand that either U__U

im autistic as well but was it like an internet friend? if you didnt talk/interact for a very, very long time maybe they just wanted to clear out some people? or did they recently tell you they'd like to do stuff with you? idk i need more context

we'd planned to play games together, then i said "hey ive been sick and not feeling too well but ill let u know when i feel better" and then we didn't talk for like a little more than a week maybe. then we talked ab something irrelevant to that, and a few days after that i reached out on dc saying i was feeling better and that we could play. he didnt reply for like a week and then i saw that he'd unfollowed me lol