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I like that ppl see gsm as
Solar
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Solar wrote:
i think splitting is fair …. why not 
the argument for ohhh labor at home isnt split evenly either ohh i get periods are kind of strange to me like.. it really is not that deep when u go on a first date, sounds to me like u just want to get pampered and not pay the bill hehe
which is valid if thats what u want 
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Date: 08-01-2026 12:56
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whydoiexist wrote:
no one pays we run away without paying together
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Date: 08-01-2026 12:58
Solar
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Solar wrote:
also gsm IS annoyingly “woke” but with insanely stupid stances and with 9/10 discussions theres no room for an avtual hot take or grey area…. like a few weeks ago i participated in a thread were they were discussing that male social workers working with kids shouldnt be allowed to change a diaper on their own but female social workers shoukd be…. like omg….. that is HORRIBLE. lmao
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Date: 08-01-2026 12:59
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Miguel wrote:
Solar wrote:
also gsm IS annoyingly “woke” but with insanely stupid stances and with 9/10 discussions theres no room for an avtual hot take or grey area…. like a few weeks ago i participated in a thread were they were discussing that male social workers working with kids shouldnt be allowed to change a diaper on their own but female social workers shoukd be…. like omg….. that is HORRIBLE. lmao
ppl can not grasp the idea that maybe saying that men (mostly directed towards cis men) r a danger to children n women kinda takes away men's responsability in their ability to take decisions n be good decent people 
no one is born a certain way for being asigned a certain sex or gender
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Date: 08-01-2026 14:43
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Miguel wrote:
Merlin wrote:
I never understood the whole expectation of the man to pays for dates, hold doors, is supposed to propose etc. It's weird in my opinion, wher's the equality?

I think everyone should pay for themselves unless someone insists that they want to. 
to be fair until women were actually paid more decently for the work they did (women have always worked, but that doesnt mean they were paid or paid anywhere near what we now consider the bare minimum ig?), it made a lot of sense for men to be the ones who paid for stuff (bc they were the ones who actually got any money...)
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Date: 08-01-2026 14:45
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Miguel wrote:
Miguel wrote:
Solar wrote:
also gsm IS annoyingly “woke” but with insanely stupid stances and with 9/10 discussions theres no room for an avtual hot take or grey area…. like a few weeks ago i participated in a thread were they were discussing that male social workers working with kids shouldnt be allowed to change a diaper on their own but female social workers shoukd be…. like omg….. that is HORRIBLE. lmao
ppl can not grasp the idea that maybe saying that men (mostly directed towards cis men) r a danger to children n women kinda takes away men's responsability in their ability to take decisions n be good decent people 
no one is born a certain way for being asigned a certain sex or gender
n also i do agree that based on how we are socialized and us being born into a patriarchal world, we are possibly more likely to act a certain way based on what behaviours we are directly or indirectly taught . i think its quite obvious looking at criminal statistics, of course ( n in criminology we do agree that being a man makes you more likely to commit crimes overall, not because being a man on itself is a risk, but because the way men tend to be socialized allows them to overlook certain actions n behaviours as ok or as if theyre entitled to behave that way)
overall i believe having a black n white view on what men and women are does nothing for us, it just makes it look like its in someones nature to act a certain way, and ignores other aspects that also contribute to how we perceive and how we interact with other people and with reality itself 
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Date: 08-01-2026 14:50
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Miguel wrote:
sorry for the #yapping
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toraix wrote:
im a man and would like to pay for the whole bill it makes me feel masculine and awesome

no matter if it was only a friend and whatever gender they are
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toraix wrote:
also gsm nowdays is kind of terf and toxic femininity coded in my head so i dont really log in anymore

just my biased opinion
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toraix wrote:
also like if a woman or anyone at that matter offered to pay my meal i wouldnt be offended i would be honored

i love the chinese big sister types -videos 
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Date: 08-01-2026 15:02
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RaspberryPie wrote:
Maybe I am very autisctic but every one thinks differently about it so I would always check before hand??

Splitting or me paying is also fine by me, I just want to know so there is no argument or surprise
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Date: 08-01-2026 15:30
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asteroids wrote:
Lorakyne wrote:
i remember this one time someone on gsm got mad cuz someone talked about how they got stung by a bee and thus the bee died and it was triggering towards vegans
this was u
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Date: 08-01-2026 16:47
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TogetherForever wrote:
I'm on the side of whoever invited someone for the date should pay, but I'm also not opposed to splitting it, if we just met. 

If it goes well, I typically pay for the next date, or if we did an activity and then food, one of us can pay for food and one for the activity.

I don't think to much into it honestly. I just do what feels fair, and what I would do if they were a friend
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Date: 08-01-2026 17:32
Solar
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Solar wrote:
Miguel wrote:
Miguel wrote:
Solar wrote:
also gsm IS annoyingly “woke” but with insanely stupid stances and with 9/10 discussions theres no room for an avtual hot take or grey area…. like a few weeks ago i participated in a thread were they were discussing that male social workers working with kids shouldnt be allowed to change a diaper on their own but female social workers shoukd be…. like omg….. that is HORRIBLE. lmao
ppl can not grasp the idea that maybe saying that men (mostly directed towards cis men) r a danger to children n women kinda takes away men's responsability in their ability to take decisions n be good decent people 
no one is born a certain way for being asigned a certain sex or gender
n also i do agree that based on how we are socialized and us being born into a patriarchal world, we are possibly more likely to act a certain way based on what behaviours we are directly or indirectly taught . i think its quite obvious looking at criminal statistics, of course ( n in criminology we do agree that being a man makes you more likely to commit crimes overall, not because being a man on itself is a risk, but because the way men tend to be socialized allows them to overlook certain actions n behaviours as ok or as if theyre entitled to behave that way)
overall i believe having a black n white view on what men and women are does nothing for us, it just makes it look like its in someones nature to act a certain way, and ignores other aspects that also contribute to how we perceive and how we interact with other people and with reality itself 
based, agreed
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Date: 08-01-2026 23:31
Solar
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Solar wrote:
toraix wrote:
also gsm nowdays is kind of terf and toxic femininity coded in my head so i dont really log in anymore

just my biased opinion
yes it really does give off this vibe
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Date: 08-01-2026 23:32
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