desole wrote:disposable wrote:
could you perhaps ask him about those days he didn't talk to you and why? but maybe it's because you've told him you don't want anything serious, and he's not thinking about your relationship/crushsituation as something serious
but like, the easiest thing is to talk to him
and i don't know this guy but people around you tend to see things you don't. and the drug issue is bad stuff and not something you should get caught in
we have talked about me not wanting anything serious atm and he said he felt the same way because of his drug issue, but yeah the best thing would maybe be for me to just straight up ask him about it I guess but it feels idk scary to do so.
I know it's bad and all but I feel like I atleast owe him a chance, he knows that one of my best friends have drug issues and I still hang with her, and I have also told him that two of my brothers also have problems with drugs. I hate to cut him off just because he has an addiction u know? It feels like such a shitty thing to do when the times I have been with him he has never done anything wrong and never taken any drugs around me that I have been aware off :/
i understand, tricky situation