zuli wrote:Abby wrote:
Can I ask like
How long you've been together?
How long has he been in that state and if you guys had any problems because of that?
You aren't his therapist but you ARE his partner and if he could never lean on you for comfort or fall back on you... das a problem
i've known him for like 12 years, but we'd been together since dec 2021
he started being weird since the first day he told ab this girl bc she works in the same field he's majoring in and he was introduced to her by his proffessor.
he's always been very brick-like when it comes to confronting his emotions and we've had fights ab that specific trait of his, cuz well, i'd always try to help him and he'd always just shut down and tell me to leave him alone since he processes emotions that way. i told him to get therapy multiple times since well, he'd always shut down.
i don't even want to bring this up bc technically i found this playlist snooping around his spotify looking for a specific playlist he made a while back.
im so mad ab this whole thing bc he's been cheated on multiple times in the past and i find so very cruel that he might've came up with this method of "soft leaving me" so if i ever complain he could prob say something like "well i mean we weren't
together together yk"
yeaaaaaaaahh that is not "mental health" he has most lkely DID something that makes him slowly pull away from you