fujiwara wrote:
typically i would just block him no matter how he would try to contact. u have made boundaries in the past and he has broken them, that isnt ur fault and he should learn to stay away after so many years. though i would say, if u are going to decide to text back, confide in your current partner for advice on how to respond, if at all?...
current parter sounds much more wonderful for u, and i think he wouldnt mind helping u relieve any burden of this situation, since its of the past, and moving past this could mean u both moving more along together