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Maxwell wrote:
my brother failed his exam like his apprentice exam, discussing it all over again like hello the results won't change he did what he could he alrdy admitted he cud've studied harder y is there a need to bring this up again, he is not the one that brings it up nd he just sits there listening to the conversation Im like shut up!! shut up!! he is good at what he does he just wasn't prepared bcus he hasn't gotten to WORK in the field abt what came on the exam

he is doing good nd he will take it again when he can nd b more prepared yyyyy do we have to bring this up all the time I feel so bad for him I always go nd make them shut up nd tell my brother to not let them bring him down from his accomplishments bcus he is still doing so good!!!!!!! grrrr!!!!

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Arthema wrote:
it is such a shitty thing to do, 1 small thing and it ruins a beautiful sheet of great achievements and things he did or anyone did
really dumb and really annoying to deal with

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Babel wrote:
I'm so happy you're so proud of your brother !!
I believe in him! fuck exams

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SadBread wrote:
My dad did the same thing, I failed my finals and he started yelling that I now wasted my time since i didn't get a diploma but I was already accepted and allowed to go my dream school so I didn't understand why he got so upset. I just hink that it doesn't matter if you fail or not, as long as you do your best that's all that matters and your brother should be super proud!!

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SadBread wrote:
My dad did the same thing, I failed my finals and he started yelling that I now wasted my time since i didn't get a diploma but I was already accepted and allowed to go my dream school so I didn't understand why he got so upset. I just hink that it doesn't matter if you fail or not, as long as you do your best that's all that matters and your brother should be super proud!!

this is the best mindset

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Maxwell wrote:

Arthema wrote:
it is such a shitty thing to do, 1 small thing and it ruins a beautiful sheet of great achievements and things he did or anyone did
really dumb and really annoying to deal with

yes >:I esp bcus I kno my dad failed more than one exam in uni nd now he is a sought after electrical engineer. One misshap does not mean the end of the world! He is young he is 21 so many things can change nd he got all the power nd time in him to make that change!!

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Maxwell wrote:

SadBread wrote:
My dad did the same thing, I failed my finals and he started yelling that I now wasted my time since i didn't get a diploma but I was already accepted and allowed to go my dream school so I didn't understand why he got so upset. I just hink that it doesn't matter if you fail or not, as long as you do your best that's all that matters and your brother should be super proud!!

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it is so mean rlly, I do not understand the mindset of "oh u failed that's so bad let me yell at u" instead of raising them up nd showing how it is not the end of life bcus of one stupid exam. Like yelling at someone who's alrdy down what does that fix?!