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I need deep psychological help
TarranttHightopp
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TarranttHightopp wrote:
Fr fr

I have a problem. The problem is that I am currently obsessed with a TV show from 20 years ago and specifically one character. I won't lie this character makes me happy bc they are cute and funny and innocent and makes me feel safe. But the problem is I'm so obsessed and I can't stop thinking of him. I try to distract myself from these thoughts by drawing or playing a game or listening to music, but then I only want to draw him or make him as a character or listen to songs that remind me of him.

It has recently become so bad I try to be intimate with my husband but can only think of this character, lol. And it makes me feel guilty because I don't feel loyal thinking about someone else even if they're not real while I do that with my hubby.

My question is am I the only one who ever experienced this?

Sorry for the essay.
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Date: 06-09-2024 03:55
TarranttHightopp
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TarranttHightopp wrote:
Ps if you knew me on here back in the day this is nothing new, I'm just mature enough now to put my feelings about this kind of thing into words
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Date: 06-09-2024 04:04
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Personally I can't relate but I doubt you're alone. Feel like I've read posts abt stuff like this before. 
Date: 06-09-2024 12:12
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Melody wrote:
yeah actually lmao

for me it was only rly an issue back in my teens when i still thought i could date ppl (i have since learned i'm aromantic). i was open about it from very beginning to the ppl i dated and they sorta reciprocated in a rp kinda way i think (we were in same fandoms), but in the end they always insisted i mainly recognized them as their real selves. it put a strain to the relationships, but there were other issues as well bc i was very mentally ill (and also it turned out they were lesbians while i'm afab transmasc [so it fed into my dysphoria] but i also don't blame them for exploring/not telling me bc teens will be teens right) so it wasn't the main reason we broke up

but yea idk you at all so idk if this is a recent development. if it's been going on for years then it will be tough to "relearn" how to think abt things. and sadly i can't provide a cure of sorts since i never learned to get over it (partially bc i'm too embarrassed to tell the psych ppl about it oops). i don't know if you've told your husband yet, but keeping a secret like this will be incredibly unhealthy in the long run i bet. it's also impossible to tell what he will think abt it before you bring it up so honestly the only solution i can see is to rip the bandaid now rather than later
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Date: 06-09-2024 12:50
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hmm wrote:
well that's okay, it'll go away with time. you could try talking to your husband about it though
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Date: 06-09-2024 14:24
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Date: 06-09-2024 20:06
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