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Wenka wrote:
Saw my ex with someone new
The stab hurt like hell man especially
when he said to me "I don't know how to be in relationship"
and he still doesn't know if he knows how to be in one.

the pain tho, like was I just too hard to love? 
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Date: 21-03-2025 02:42
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Sera wrote:
no, no you weren't. i'm sure you're a lovely person and i'm so sorry you had to experience being around someone who took it for granted. know that your worth is not tied to this person trying to justify his unwillingness to properly commit by such silly words. 

"and he still doesn't know if he knows how to be in one."

i hope you're not keeping in touch with him. you deserve so much more. <3
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Date: 21-03-2025 03:28
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Thug wrote:
That's just what most people say when they just wan to play around without the commitments of a relationship, I'm sure you were not the problem 
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Date: 21-03-2025 03:29
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Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
That's just what most people say when they just wan to play around without the commitments of a relationship, I'm sure you were not the problem 
yup... happened to me as well. turns out he could commit just fine when it wasn't me

"let's just see where this goes"
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Date: 21-03-2025 03:31 | Times changed: 1
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Thug wrote:
Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
That's just what most people say when they just wan to play around without the commitments of a relationship, I'm sure you were not the problem 
yup... happened to me as well. turns out he could commit just fine when it wasn't me

"let's just see where this goes"
A lot of men are unfortunately like this, they say such vague stuff because they are to cowardly to say what they actually want. 
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Date: 21-03-2025 03:41
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Thug wrote:
I know it hurts wenka, I've been in that same position. It's okay to feel hurt and betrayed. But this does not mean you are unlovable, it means he's an asshole
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Date: 21-03-2025 03:47
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Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
That's just what most people say when they just wan to play around without the commitments of a relationship, I'm sure you were not the problem 
yup... happened to me as well. turns out he could commit just fine when it wasn't me

"let's just see where this goes"
A lot of men are unfortunately like this, they say such vague stuff because they are to cowardly to say what they actually want. 

and lose the benefits of just having someone around. i truly despise when they phrase it as in wenka's post, victimizing themselves when really, it's nothing more than a selfish desire. like, keeping the door open because maybe, someday, somehow, he will be ready (nope.)
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Date: 21-03-2025 03:51
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Thug wrote:
Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
Sera wrote:
yup... happened to me as well. turns out he could commit just fine when it wasn't me

"let's just see where this goes"
A lot of men are unfortunately like this, they say such vague stuff because they are to cowardly to say what they actually want. 

and lose the benefits of just having someone around. i truly despise when they phrase it as in wenka's post, victimizing themselves when really, it's nothing more than a selfish desire. like, keeping the door open because maybe, someday, somehow, he will be ready (nope.)
It's the leading women along that gets me upset, just say you want a FwB if that's what you want but don't trick me into thinking you have feelings for me???
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Date: 21-03-2025 03:56
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Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
A lot of men are unfortunately like this, they say such vague stuff because they are to cowardly to say what they actually want. 

and lose the benefits of just having someone around. i truly despise when they phrase it as in wenka's post, victimizing themselves when really, it's nothing more than a selfish desire. like, keeping the door open because maybe, someday, somehow, he will be ready (nope.)
It's the leading women along that gets me upset, just say you want a FwB if that's what you want but don't trick me into thinking you have feelings for me???

yup. there are ethical ways to go about it and people who are looking for the same. honestly, i feel like a part of it ties to having the freedom to bang whoever you want while ensuring your partner has this emotional shock collar on her neck
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Date: 21-03-2025 04:03
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Thug wrote:
Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
Sera wrote:

and lose the benefits of just having someone around. i truly despise when they phrase it as in wenka's post, victimizing themselves when really, it's nothing more than a selfish desire. like, keeping the door open because maybe, someday, somehow, he will be ready (nope.)
It's the leading women along that gets me upset, just say you want a FwB if that's what you want but don't trick me into thinking you have feelings for me???

yup. there are ethical ways to go about it and people who are looking for the same. honestly, i feel like a part of it ties to having the freedom to bang whoever you want while ensuring your partner has this emotional shock collar on her neck
Could not have said it better myself 
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Date: 21-03-2025 04:04
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Wenka wrote:
Sera wrote:
no, no you weren't. i'm sure you're a lovely person and i'm so sorry you had to experience being around someone who took it for granted. know that your worth is not tied to this person trying to justify his unwillingness to properly commit by such silly words. 

"and he still doesn't know if he knows how to be in one."

i hope you're not keeping in touch with him. you deserve so much more. <3
It's so weird like what do you mean by you don't know? you either wanna be committed or not :/
I hope his new partner doesn't have to suffer like me..
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Date: 21-03-2025 13:38
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Wenka wrote:
Thug wrote:
I know it hurts wenka, I've been in that same position. It's okay to feel hurt and betrayed. But this does not mean you are unlovable, it means he's an asshole

it's just feeling like "am I not good enough for you to change and be sure this is what you want"
like do they so easily change for someone else, or do they just settle with someone who ACCEPTS it?
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Date: 21-03-2025 13:40
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Wenka wrote:
Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
That's just what most people say when they just wan to play around without the commitments of a relationship, I'm sure you were not the problem 
yup... happened to me as well. turns out he could commit just fine when it wasn't me

"let's just see where this goes"
it's honestly so mean that they "just wanna see how it goes"
just to find someone else while.. still kind of with someone yet not "together"

glad he is just ex but man it did stab anyway
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Date: 21-03-2025 13:41
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Wenka wrote:
Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
Sera wrote:
yup... happened to me as well. turns out he could commit just fine when it wasn't me

"let's just see where this goes"
A lot of men are unfortunately like this, they say such vague stuff because they are to cowardly to say what they actually want. 

and lose the benefits of just having someone around. i truly despise when they phrase it as in wenka's post, victimizing themselves when really, it's nothing more than a selfish desire. like, keeping the door open because maybe, someday, somehow, he will be ready (nope.)
he sure did make sure by the actions and words
that it really does feel like he has me on a choke hold and once no one else wants him he thinks I would run to him 
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Date: 21-03-2025 13:43
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Thug wrote:
Wenka wrote:
Thug wrote:
I know it hurts wenka, I've been in that same position. It's okay to feel hurt and betrayed. But this does not mean you are unlovable, it means he's an asshole

it's just feeling like "am I not good enough for you to change and be sure this is what you want"
like do they so easily change for someone else, or do they just settle with someone who ACCEPTS it?
They never change, they just find someone who accepts it or doesn’t care enough about it, but if you do find someone who loves you the same as you love them you work on it together 
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Date: 21-03-2025 17:08
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Thug wrote:
Wenka wrote:
Sera wrote:
Thug wrote:
A lot of men are unfortunately like this, they say such vague stuff because they are to cowardly to say what they actually want. 

and lose the benefits of just having someone around. i truly despise when they phrase it as in wenka's post, victimizing themselves when really, it's nothing more than a selfish desire. like, keeping the door open because maybe, someday, somehow, he will be ready (nope.)
he sure did make sure by the actions and words
that it really does feel like he has me on a choke hold and once no one else wants him he thinks I would run to him 
Nasty man, who is it imma cancel him
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Date: 21-03-2025 17:09
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