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Bloomlng wrote:
Because they are in a relationship and you aren't??? How does that work? 

(Venting) So my brother got married not so long ago and my SIL is now acting all high and mighty? Idk how to describe it, I didn't really know her before the marriage but she wasn't like this? And she's younger than me and it's so weird to have someone younger than you treat you like "you don't understand" because you're not in a relationship??? And I know this isn't all in my head because my sisters feel the same way and she is very talkative around our friends but when it comes to us (her family in law) she gets all quiet and snappy?

I tried to fix it so many times, since there is a lot of tension between my older sister and her but I don't feel like she wants a good relationship with us so I gave up.  
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Bloomlng wrote:
Honestly it's been very hard and I don't really know what to do, I'm not really one for drama but the past few months have been hell tbh, all I want to know is if anyone else has felt like this, or if they have felt like they are being overly sensitive (I'm feeling gaslighted) and crazy, especially since she is young so I feel like I'm judging her harshly but some people are just not nice? Everytime I try to get close she just brushes me off or even says that I was being mean to her, she'd go as far as to cry about it???
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devilcake wrote:
She sounds a combo of just kinda unpleasant and maybe insecure…  but overall strange and unpleasant behavior just because she got hitched… I have not experienced this but I can say that my brother and his gf (not married but living together for years etcetc will prolly get married in a couple of years) never act like this, nor has any of my cousins partners (also all younger than me) , so I think your feelings seem super valid given how she’s treating you
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devilcake wrote:
Are you close to your brother and can talk to him about it, maybe he has some insight in why she’s being hostile?
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Bloomlng wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Are you close to your brother and can talk to him about it, maybe he has some insight in why she’s being hostile?
Unfortunately we are not as close as we used to be when we were kids (different values) and the crazy part is that he complains about her a lot, something he never did before the marriage, but when we tell him to try and fix things and work them out, he gets all defensive and bitchy... Honestly the only reason we ever interact is because of my parents, something about sticking together or some stupid shit like that. I don't really expect this to go anywhere, I'm just so frustrated because we're being robbed of our peace and fun family time and it has gone on for too long, so I'm here complaining to let some steam off lol
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